Slaying the Three Headed Debt Monster

May 11, 2015

I recently met with a couple (let’s call them James and Julia) in their early-40’s with two young children. I could feel the stress and tension enter the room before they even took a seat in my office. If you’ve ever been around friends that were obviously not getting along, you probably recognize that feeling as all positive energy exits the room the moment the couple in distress enters. This couple’s debt-related stress was not just affecting their relationship, it was starting to impact their friends. Even more potentially devastating, debt-related stress was starting to take a toll on their physical health and well-being. Continue reading “Slaying the Three Headed Debt Monster”

Small Changes Now Can Mean Big Long Term Results

May 08, 2015

In a conversation I had recently with an employee of a large healthcare company, the topic of retirement planning and investing merged together. She had recently started her job and wanted to be sure that she got off to a good start. Her prior employer had no financial wellness benefits provided so this was her first conversation with a financial planner. The conversation was very revealing about her views of herself, the world of investing and the level of financial knowledge that many people who work in financial services business assume that individuals have when they walk in for a conversation. Continue reading “Small Changes Now Can Mean Big Long Term Results”

Is It Time to “Gamify” Your Financial Plan?

March 09, 2015

Managing finances can be a real challenge for many of us.When it comes to reaching our most important life goals, we’re not talking about a game here. We’re talking about something far more relevant in our lives such as our visions for the future, values, and life goals. Continue reading “Is It Time to “Gamify” Your Financial Plan?”

My “NO” Year’s Resolutions!

December 31, 2014

This New Year’s Eve, millions of people across the country will make New Year’s resolutions about things they’d like to do in 2015.  I’m all in favor of this annual tradition but to mix things up a bit, I’m going to suggest a few things that you DON’T want to do in 2015—something I’m calling “No” Year’s resolutions: Continue reading “My “NO” Year’s Resolutions!”

Before the Ball Drops

December 30, 2014

New Year’s Eve is a time to reflect on the past and ponder your future, but many of us spend more time planning how we will be celebrating on the last night of the year instead of planning ahead on how to achieve our New Year’s resolutions.One of the most common resolutions is to improve financial well-being, either by saving more or paying down debt.  So before you head out tomorrow night, reflect on your financial past by taking the time to calculate your net worth so you know where you stand as we head into 2015. Continue reading “Before the Ball Drops”

How Much Progress Can You Make Next Year?

December 26, 2014

One of the joys of being in a role where I can see a person make progress over the course of time is that I can remember where they started and see where they are now. Since they are living in it day to day, they don’t have the perspective that I do as a casual observer. It’s a lot like when my kids were younger, there were cousins we would only see once every year or two. Every time we saw them, I was shocked by how much their kids had grown and they were shocked by how much my kids had grown, but neither of us was shocked by the growth of our own children. Continue reading “How Much Progress Can You Make Next Year?”

Lessons From a Veteran to Today’s Soldiers

November 11, 2014

If someone were to ask me what I am the most proud of, next to my husband and daughter, I would say that I am the most proud of serving in the military. The military is where I developed a strong work ethic. I also learned to think of others before myself and I learned to lead even though I may not have had all of the answers. I enjoyed every crazy moment in the military (well, if I am honest, the port-a-potties were not fun, yuck!) and I grew close to many of the servicemen. Continue reading “Lessons From a Veteran to Today’s Soldiers”

Do You Need Some Financial Flossing?

October 31, 2014

Recently I was talking with one of my coworkers and I said the following about something at work “It’s like flossing…I know I need to do it, and I do, but I try to find ways to postpone it as long as possible!” He thought it sounded like a blog topic about the financial lives of so many people, so here we are! What are some things that we KNOW we need to do financially, but they are so “not fun” that we either don’t do them or we keep putting them off indefinitely? Continue reading “Do You Need Some Financial Flossing?”

Be the Pilot, Not the Engineer

October 24, 2014

One of my colleagues is hopelessly stuck in the years BC (“before children” as he explains) with his cultural references. He made a reference to the movie “Airplane” (acting as if it were a relatively new movie) and as we discussed the absurd premise of the movie, he made an interesting observation. “If I had to fly a plane, I’d rather be getting directions from a pilot than the engineer who built the plane.”  His point was that a pilot knows how to focus on what is necessary to keep the plane flying whereas the engineer may get bogged down in the details of how the plane works.  That’s how far too many people feel about their financial lives after they attend a class or read a book about finances.  Continue reading “Be the Pilot, Not the Engineer”

How to Assess Your Financial Wellness

September 29, 2014

Last week, we started to explore the concept of financial wellness, a term used to describe our complete financial picture or overall financial health. The following question was presented as food for thought – what does financial wellness mean to you? Continue reading “How to Assess Your Financial Wellness”

What Are Your Monkeys and Bananas?

September 26, 2014

One of the phrases my coworkers and I used a lot (at another firm during my career) in times of frustration was “monkeys and bananas.” That was our way of saying that we were operating under a bunch of constraints and no one could explain a logical or rational reason for those constraints.  “That’s the way it’s always been done…” is the beginning of an explanation that would always irritate me.  Just because something has always been done that way doesn’t mean it’s the way it should continue to be done.  So…how does that relate to monkeys and bananas??? Continue reading “What Are Your Monkeys and Bananas?”

What Does “Financial Wellness” Mean To You?

September 22, 2014

Last week, we kicked off “Ask A Planner Week” at Financial Finesse. This was designed to allow our social media fans and followers an opportunity to ask us questions so that our team of CFP® professionals can provide an unbiased answer. This initiative is being led by Erik Carter, JD, CFP® and you can check out Erik’s response to the first question “When Should You Sell Your Mutual Fund?” by clicking here to see his Thursday blog submission. We have already received many additional questions that are excellent and this is an ongoing initiative. So we encourage others to keep the questions coming in to Facebook and Twitter. Continue reading “What Does “Financial Wellness” Mean To You?”

How Our History Can Help Us Shape Our Future

September 19, 2014

200 years ago, Francis Scott Key wrote the Star Spangled Banner in the Baltimore harbor near Fort McHenry.As a Baltimore guy, this past weekend was glorious.  There were thousands of people celebrating the bicentennial of the Star Spangled Banner in the Baltimore area, tall ships from all over the world were in the harbor, the Blue Angels were doing aerial shows, there were fireworks and the Orioles were beating the Yankees in an important series.  (That has no bearing on the bicentennial, but it makes being in Baltimore a lot more fun.)  It was a great weekend to look back at our country’s history and reflect upon where we’ve been as a country and where we’re headed.  Continue reading “How Our History Can Help Us Shape Our Future”

Do You LUV Your Brand?

September 12, 2014

As someone who travels a lot for work, news from airlines always gets my attention.  Southwest Airlines is doing an overhaul of their logo, their paint jobs on planes, their snack bags…virtually everything associated with their brand.  We see the same images and messages all the time and after a while we stop noticing. I always think of Charlie Brown’s teacher when I hear a friend of mine threaten her kids with some form of punishment (which never happens, they still get ice cream after failing to listen to anything she says).  The same “you’re going to bed early” or “no technology if you don’t do X” or some similar thing is held out as a consequence, yet there are never consequences. In order for her kids to take her seriously or for companies to get us to pay attention again, sometimes a change is required.  Southwest is doing exactly that with their makeover of their logo and branding efforts. Continue reading “Do You LUV Your Brand?”

Regrets…I’ve had a few…

August 08, 2014

As a dad, I often try to impart life lessons to my kids just like people did for me when I was growing up.  And, just like I did when I was their age, there is some eye rolling and a less than full understanding of the message being delivered.  Some of the lessons I try to impart on my kids deal with more optimistic, forward looking items.  Others are lessons I learned while making mistakes in my life.  Continue reading “Regrets…I’ve had a few…”

Happy 4th of July!

July 04, 2014

On this Independence Day, I and all of the employees of Financial Finesse would like to wish you and those you love a very Happy 4th of July! Go out, have some fun, eat some burgers or dogs or tofurkey, watch some fireworks and come back ready to finish the second half of the year on a positive note financially!

 

 

Are Money Issues Causing Stress and Anxiety?

March 31, 2014

How high is your financial anxiety? Hopefully, it is low or at least manageable. Last month, my anxiety level went up briefly as financial stress crept into our family’s financial plan in the form of unexpected but thankfully minor surgery for our son, an emergency vet visit for our dog, and tuition bills for grad school (for me) and pre-school (not for me). Thank goodness we have an emergency fund and health savings account to offset some of the costs! Expected and unexpected expenses like these can wreak havoc on our financial plans if we don’t maintain some flexibility and adapt our plans as those “surely this won’t happen to me” events occur. Continue reading “Are Money Issues Causing Stress and Anxiety?”