Beware Black Friday ‘Deals’

November 23, 2018

As we see the full retail advertising onslaught and stores open ridiculously early for Black Friday (some are even opening on Thanksgiving Day now, which I find appalling), please try to remember a couple of things:

1) This is the time of year when emotions can override logic and overspending can occur. I have spoken with countless people who end up with a sizeable chunk of credit card debt because of holiday spending. Go into the shopping season with a list (wow, I’m becoming my mother!) of who you are buying gifts for and set a budgetary target. Then, stick to those targets. Those Black Friday “deals” may not seem like such a deal if they have 19.9% interest tacked on to the balance next summer.

2) The people in your life, if they are anything like me, will be happier to spend time with you than they are with any gift that you might buy. I’d wager that if you think back over the last several years, you probably can’t remember what you bought for each person on your list or what they bought for you. It’s a season of friends, family and togetherness – not retail profits.

Drink some cocoa, enjoy your friends and family – and have a safe, fun, and financially secure holiday season.

Don’t Let Black Friday Put You In The Red

November 20, 2017

It’s official. The Holiday shopping season has begun. If you are like me and my family, spending for the holidays is one of the biggest budget busters you will face. Even if you have done a great job controlling your spending up until now (and I hope you have!), the desire to splurge during the holidays is all too real.

To help, I’ve put together some tips on how to manage your spending while keeping that holiday cheer:

Create and execute a detailed budget

I know, it sounds cliche, but it works. Start by breaking your spending down into categories. I suggest:

  • Gifts
  • Décor
  • Entertainment
  • Travel
  • Food
  • Last minute miscellaneous

Then, write down how much you are willing to spend in each category. Consider using a spreadsheet with a separate tab for each category or envelopes – the more detailed the better.

For every person you want to buy a gift for, record their name and the amount of money you want to spend on them. If you feel like it’s “you against the world” when you are budgeting, don’t create your budget in a bubble – include your significant other or a close friend to serve as both a reality check and an accountability partner.

Finally, beware the impulse buy – don’t make any holiday purchases before confirming that it fits in your budget or that it’s already in your plan.

Be careful of Black Friday and Cyber Monday

If you’re planning to be one of the over 154 million consumers expected to make a purchase on Black Friday, this one’s for you. The sales can be great, but don’t buy something unless it is specifically covered by your budget and in your plan. So, if you find that 70-inch TV at 50% off, but the price still exceeds your budget, consider not making the purchase – especially not for yourself.

If you feel like you spend more on yourself than other on Black Friday, you’re not alone. Studies show that 60% of the people who make purchases on Black Friday are “self-gifting.” If you can’t find the perfect sale on Black Friday to fit your budget, don’t worry – you still have about 4 weeks until the end of the holiday season and there will be other sales.

If you fall into the category of feeling obligated to shop on Black Friday because it is a family tradition or you like the rush, consider starting a new tradition such as volunteering in your community. Helping others while sticking to your budget sounds like a win/win situation to me.

Find creative ways to save money

If you are getting nickeled and dimed to death by buying a small gift for several people (teachers, neighbors, not-so-close friends, etc.), think of ways to spend less and still provide a personal gift.

If you are a baker, consider making a huge batch of your favorite cookies or pastries and pass them out (just don’t defeat the purpose by going crazy on cute packaging). A good sweet gift can go a long way toward putting a smile on someone’s face while keeping you on budget.

If you are hosting a family dinner for the holidays, consider baking a lasagna or using a more budget-friendly cut of meat, rather than prime rib, and ask your guests to bring their favorite beverage. You will still be serving a great meal and your guests will have the drink of their choice – that makes for a festive and affordable evening.

Managing your money effectively during the holidays does not mean you have to be a Grinch. Just sit with your accountability partner and write down a realistic budget that will still allow you to enjoy giving to others. Start some new traditions that are fun and affordable, and always remember that spending time with others is more valuable than spending money on others.

Happy holidays!

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5 Ways to Save on Christmas Shopping After Black Friday

December 12, 2012

Now that Black Friday and Cyber Monday have passed, you may think that the good deals are gone as well. Fortunately, this just isn’t the case. While it’s true that steep discounts are to be had on those famous shopping days, plenty of items are still discounted both online and at the mall. They may not be advertised as loudly, but with a little effort, the remaining deals aren’t that hard to find. Continue reading “5 Ways to Save on Christmas Shopping After Black Friday”

6 Ways to Save on Your Thanksgiving Celebrations

November 14, 2012

Now that Halloween is behind us, it’s time to gear up financially for the holidays right around the corner, the first of which is Thanksgiving. It can be very easy to let costs spiral out of control when planning your Turkey Day feast – but remember, holiday shopping will be here before you know it. Continue reading “6 Ways to Save on Your Thanksgiving Celebrations”

Surviving the Holiday Season

December 22, 2011

Opening gifts may be fun but opening the credit bills next month won’t be. No one wants to start off the New Year deeper in debt, but too often that’s exactly what happens. Here are some ways to survive the holiday season without turning into the Grinch: Continue reading “Surviving the Holiday Season”

The Day After Black Friday

December 09, 2011

What is the day after Black Friday called? I have no idea if it actually has a name, but after reading news stories and seeing things all over the internet and on Twitter, I have a few suggestions. “Retail hangover Saturday?” “How much did I spend yesterday” day? “Look at all my new store credit cards” day? I saw a lot of stories, blogs and tweets about people spending money and opening up new credit cards in order to get an extra 10% or 20% off of their purchases. Many of them plan to close the cards immediately upon getting their first bill. But is that a wise move? It might be, but let’s look at the options you have for recently opened credit cards, and how your credit score might be impacted. Continue reading “The Day After Black Friday”

How to Enjoy Black Friday without Going into the Red

November 21, 2011

Black Friday has been a shopping tradition for many years.  I remember when my son, Brian, was a baby and we were visiting my parents, he was rather fussy and was driving my father crazy.  So the day after Thanksgiving, he went into town to purchase a baby swing at Toys R Us ®.  That was 23 years ago and he hasn’t forgotten it!  He thought the baby was fussy, Black Friday shoppers are in a league of their own – they were then and they are now, so he now knows to stay out of the way or stay home.  He did come home with a swing which made the rest of our Thanksgiving holiday weekend much more pleasant. Continue reading “How to Enjoy Black Friday without Going into the Red”

3 Ways to Save when Holiday Shopping for Kids

November 09, 2011

There are 46 shopping days left until Christmas, and if you’re anything like me, nothing squashes your holiday spirit faster than being at the mall standing in line to purchase overpriced merchandise on Christmas eve with a thousand other people, and I refuse to get up at 3 AM on black Friday to go out and get the best “deals” when I could be home eating Thanksgiving leftovers with the family.  That said, the Christmas shopping will eventually have to get done, and in tough economic times such as these, we have to come up with ways to shop smarter.  Here are some ideas we at the Ward family have adopted to help make the holidays a time of joy, and not a recipe for financial woe: Continue reading “3 Ways to Save when Holiday Shopping for Kids”