Would You Go Carless?

June 23, 2016

About 4 months I ago, I finally got rid of my 1995 BMW 325ic. I always knew that day would arrive and in many ways, it happened in the best way possible. Instead of breaking down in the middle of the highway or slowly eating away my bank account in small repairs, it simple failed the CA smog test and would have cost me more to repair than the car was worth. Since I couldn’t legally drive it, and it made no financial sense to fix it, my decision was easy. I sold it to a mechanic I met as my Uber driver and decided to go carless.

As with getting rid of cable TV, I’ve never regretted it. (The fact that I’m thinking of moving back to NYC helped too.) But kids, before you try this at home, here are several things you’ll want to ask yourself:

How much does you car really cost you? It’s not just the car payment. Think about the cost of insurance, gas, and maintenance and repairs too. I bought mine in cash so I didn’t have a payment, didn’t drive much, and had a no-frills high-deductible insurance plan. However, I still spent about $85 a month in gas and $35 a month in insurance plus a decent amount in repairs each year.

What’s your life like? What’s your commute to work? Where do you tend to go?

In my case, there are several reasons why I don’t drive much and am able to get along well without a car. When I’m not traveling, I work from home so there’s no need for a commute. I also live in a neighborhood in which I can walk to 3 grocery stores, countless restaurants of every cuisine you can imagine, and even my doctor, dentist, and eye doctor. Your mileage (pun intended) may vary.

How will you get around without a car? We all need to go places that aren’t walkable from time to time. Do you have a spouse with a car? How is public transportation in your area? What other options do you have?

My girlfriend has a car, but I can’t always rely on that. San Diego is also notorious for not having the best public transportation system so I tend to use Car2Go and ride sharing apps like Lyft and Uber. Car2Go allows you to rent little smart cars (gas and insurance included) for short trips and is generally the cheapest option if you park it in a home area (generally urban areas of major cities). If you’re not in a rush, you can also minimize the cost of Lyft and Uber rides by choosing the Lyft Line and Uber Pool options, which give you a lower rate in exchange for possibly having to share your ride with other people going in the same general direction. This is particularly beneficial in longer, more expensive rides as it can cut the cost almost in half (a recent ride went from about $26 to $16) and I’ve only had to share a ride a couple of times.

The best rewards of being carless aren’t financial though. It’s the lack of stress worrying about navigating through traffic (versus playing on my phone as a passenger), looking for parking, and dealing with car problems. Knowing you’re doing your part to literally save the world doesn’t hurt either.

 

3 Numbers That Matter More Than Your Credit Score

June 22, 2016

While knowing your credit score and the elements that impact it is important to your overall financial well-being, I sometimes find that people are overly concerned about it at the peril of other more important financial measurements. Your credit score only really matters when you’re applying for a loan, certain types of insurance and increasingly, when applying for a job. If none of those things are on your horizon, then your score is more like your high school ACT scores – perhaps a point of pride, but pretty irrelevant for the time being. Here are three more important numbers you should be focused on instead:

Net Worth

What is it: Assets (bank accounts, investments, home, car – basically cash or anything you could turn into cash) minus liabilities (credit card balances, car loans, student loans, mortgages, 401k loans – anything you owe).

Ideal number: As high as possible.

Why it matters: Your net worth is the ultimate measure of your ability to weather financial storms and maintain financial choices in life. The higher your net worth, the more financial freedom you can afford. There are countless cases of people who were millionaires on the asset side but broke on the net worth side as cautionary tales of neglecting this important number. Many of these people suffered during the last recession when their debts were called.

How to track it: I calculate my net worth on a monthly basis using Google sheets at the same time I sit down to set up any bill payments for the month. Here’s a snapshot of what it looks like:

Net worth snapshot

One nice side effect of this is the fact that I’m checking on all of my accounts at least once a month, so I can also do a quick check for anything fishy.

Worth noting: I pay all my credit cards off each month, but I include them on this sheet because that’s money I still owe that is reflected in my checking account above. It’s the only way to have a truly clear picture of what I have. I keep things like my student loan and Mini Cooper loan on there both for historical accuracy as well as for the psychological thrill of seeing a big fat ZERO under old debts. It’s a little, “Yay me! Look how far you’ve come!” moment each month.

Retirement Readiness

What is it: The best way to measure whether you’re saving enough to retire comfortably when you want to, especially if you have many years to go until retirement.

Ideal number: On track to replace about 80% of your current income, unless you’re within 5 years of retirement (when you can be more specific about how much you’ll need each year).

Why it matters: Retirement, which really just means transitioning to living off your savings one day, is one financial goal that pretty much all of us share. Whenever anyone asks me what to do with extra money or if they can afford to take on an additional debt payment or savings goal, my first question is, “are you on track for retirement?” Even though it may be one of your longest-term goals, it should be in the top 3 in terms of priorities.

How to track it: There are countless calculators out there, but for people with a 401k or other workplace savings plan, I prefer this Retirement Estimator.

Worth noting: Many people who say they aren’t on track to retire have never run a calculator. Knowing is the first step!

Emergency Fund

What is it: A cash cushion in place to tap into in case of an unexpected loss of income due to job loss or extended illness or injury.

Ideal number: 3 months of expenses, minimum. For single income households or career fields that aren’t as certain, at least 6.

Why it matters: Life happens and when it does, having cash that’s easily accessible takes away much of the financial stress and allows you to focus your energy on finding a job, healing or adjusting to the new normal.

How to track it: If you’re starting from zero, start with a goal of setting three months of rent or mortgage aside. Then tack on three months of your next highest expense and so on until you have all essential expenses covered. Once you’re at three months, make sure you adjust for any changes such as a new home, new baby, etc.

Worth noting: It can be tempting to keep a credit card on hand instead of the cash or want to invest the cash for higher earnings, but resist. Should something happen, consider the probability that it could be due to an economic downturn when credit may not be as easily accessible and/or the stock market could be down. The best place for your emergency fund is in a high yield savings account.

These are the three numbers you want to focus on. Even if you’re not at the ideal numbers yet, you’ll be well on your way to financial freedom if you can find a way to track them on a consistent basis. And you just may find your credit score improving as well.

Don’t Let Medical Bills Ruin Your Financial Health

June 21, 2016

If you have read my posts, you know that my family has been in the emergency room so often that during one visit, the nurse was able to get our information from memory. This experience gave me a taste of what people with ongoing medical expenses go through. We are lucky that most of our visits needed little to no follow-up and we are all healthy though.

Not everyone is so fortunate. A study by Harvard University showed that medical expenses are one of the top reasons for bankruptcies. If your medical expenses are crippling your finances, consider doing the following:

Shop around for prescription medication. The same drug can cost wildy different prices depending on where you go to get the medication. This is because the price of the drug typically depends on the pharmacy’s deal with the supplier, the pharmacist’s overhead and profit margins. FDA regulates the drug, not the price. Shop around for the best price or use websites like GoodRx.com or LowestMed.com to shop around for the best price in your area.

Bonus Tip:  Typically, you do not need to be a member of warehouses like Costco or Sam’s Club to use their pharmacies.

Before you get a medical procedure, find out the average cost. Even though your doctor may be covered by your insurance, the facility where you are getting your procedure may not be, so be sure to verify insurance coverage. The price of a procedure can cost three times or more as much at one facility vs. another. Call local hospitals or use websites like Healthcare Bluebook to gauge how much your medical bill may cost. Finally, try to negotiate the cost of your procedure before you get the service.

Bonus Tip: Even after you have your procedure, still do a cost comparison. If your bill is much higher than the average for your area, use that information to negotiate your medical bill.

Contact your hospital if you cannot afford to pay. Many hospitals have programs for people who are uninsured or under-insured. Contact your medical provider before the procedure if you feel like you might not be able to cover the bills. The billing office may be able to find alternate ways to pay for the bill.

In addition, ask the hospital for a written financial assistance policy. The policy should spell out eligibility and the process of applying for assistance. Make sure any deals and/or discounts you get are in writing as well.

Bonus Tip: Medical bills are notorious for errors. After your procedure, ask for an itemized bill and your medical records. Any items on your bill that do not match your medical records should be disputed.

If you do not have the time, patience or ability to negotiate on your own, consider hiring a medical bill negotiator. Years ago, I was involved in a car accident and quickly mounted several thousand dollars in medical bills. After going back and forth with the insurance company and lawyers, I hired a medical bill negotiator to review my bills and they found errors that saved me thousands of dollars. The cost of the services varies. A company may charge by the hour. Others charge as a percentage of service. You can search for a medical bill negotiator on websites like the National Association of Healthcare Advocacy Consultants, the Alliance of Claims Assistance Professionals, and the Patient Advocate Foundation.

Bonus Tip: See how much you can negotiate on your own before hiring a professional.

Remember that you have a lot more negotiating power than you think when it comes to your medical expenses. If possible,  consider using the resources mentioned in this blog post to shop around for the best price for your medical needs and to proactively check your bill for these. This can go a long way to slashing your medical costs.

 

 

When “None of the Above” Isn’t an Option

June 17, 2016

As I type this, Hillary Clinton is giving a speech after winning the California and New Jersey primaries and becoming the Democratic party presumptive nominee. This is merely weeks after Donald Trump gave his speech after wrapping up the Republican primaries as their presumptive nominee. Most people I’ve talked to and seen commenting on my social media accounts wish that they had a “D – None of the above” option like there is on standardized tests.

I don’t think I’m going out on a limb by saying that, as a country, we should be able to do better than these candidates.  A lack of great available options isn’t just an issue in politics though. It’s a problem in the financial lives of many people that I’ve talked to recently.

If you are confronted with a bad situation, there are some things you can do. First, try to think of as many potential solutions as you can. Consider consulting with people you know and trust or an unbiased financial planner for ideas. You might be able to come up with a better solution this way. If not, make a list of pros and cons for each potential solution and prioritize what’s most important to you.

For example, one person I talked with was in a bit of a financial jam, and my goal was to help her find a way to a better place.  She had recently gone through a divorce, and her budget included receiving child support from her ex-husband. He has chosen to change jobs and now works “under the table” for cash so that it is not reportable. If it’s not reported, she can’t collect, and now her living expenses exceed her income.

The child support would have been deposited into savings for her kids’ education and for emergencies. Instead, she taps into savings for about $100/month to maintain her current lifestyle. We talked through a few options:

  • Sell the house and downsize. Reduce the mortgage by several hundred dollars per month so that there is wiggle room. (She just refinanced when she bought the ex’s portion of the house, so a simple refi is not an option.)
  • Get a part time job and work when the kids are with their dad in order to generate some income to cover the gap.
  • Cut the cord and get rid of her high end cable package.
  • Get rid of her car with a $500/month payment and get something less expensive.
  • Hire an attorney or investigator to track her ex-husband’s financial life and then go to court in order to get child support dollars flowing in.
  • Suck it up, hope for the best and continue to grind forward as is.

Each option has its downsides and she viewed all of them like many Americans are viewing Trump v Clinton. But just like in politics, there is no perfect solution, and trying to find one can prevent you from choosing a good one or at least the “least bad” one. I don’t know which option she’ll end up picking, but she’s now in a better position to make a decision. After all, sometimes making no choice can be the worst choice of all.

 

 

The Father’s Day Gift That Keeps On Giving

June 16, 2016

Are you looking for a last minute gift for Father’s Day? Instead of another necktie that he probably doesn’t need, why not a gift that keeps on giving: financial wellness? Of course, none of us can actually give someone financial wellness, but the next best thing would be our CEO’s new book What Your Financial Advisor Isn’t Telling You.

Don’t worry. If your dad is like mine and acts as his own financial advisor, this book could still apply because much of it covers essential personal finance information that financial advisors typically don’t tell their clients like how to build wealth in the first place. (Advisors generally won’t work with you unless you already have some wealth for them to manage.) If your dad does have an advisor, the book discusses how to best work with an advisor, how to know if he has the right advisor, and how to find a new one if necessary. Specifically, here are some topics that would be particularly useful for dads:

Life Insurance and Estate Planning. These are important topics for dads because they’re still typically the primary breadwinners in their families, and men generally don’t live as long as women. To really see the value of estate planning for dads and what specific steps they can take, see this blog post by my colleague Greg Ward.

Basic Money Management:Money is often cited as a top source of stress and an issue that couples fight about. It can be particularly difficult for new parents. Among all the other challenges are the additional expenses and possibly a loss of income if one parent takes some time off work. Having a better understanding of money management can lead to lower stress and more marital bliss for both mom and dad alike.

Investing. In my experience working with couples, the husband usually manages the family’s investments. However, it turns out that most would probably be better off letting their wives handle this since research has found that on average, women are better investors than men. This is because hormones like testosterone and cortisol can contribute to more overconfidence and less patience in men, which leads them to invest more in things they don’t fully understand, take bigger risks, and trade more frequently (which costs more money). Learning more about investing from an unbiased source can help them overcome their biology and become better investors.

What Your Financial Advisor Isn’t Telling You or a similar personal finance book can be a great Father’s Day gift that benefits the whole family. At the very least, it will be sure to cost you much less than the $116 average that people spend on a Father’s Day gift. You can always use those savings to buy him a nicer tie next year.

 

 

What Really Matters to Your Credit Score

June 15, 2016

Do you know what elements make up your credit score? First, it’s important to know the difference between your credit score and your credit report, which are often confused. Your credit score is based on the items found on your credit report, kind of like how your grades are based on how you did on your homework and class assignments.

In order to get a better grade, you need to improve your homework and assignments. So before you freak out because your score is lower than you think it should be, you need to know how it’s calculated. Here are five things that you might think matter – but don’t – and five that really do.

What Doesn’t Matter

  • Employment history. Even though the amount of credit card offers I receive skyrocketed when I re-entered the workforce after being self-employed back in the day, credit agencies do not track your employment, nor does it affect your credit score. Whether or not you have a job may affect your ability to obtain credit (such as a loan or credit card), but that information does not go into your credit history.
  • Interest rates on debt. The lower your rates, the quicker you’ll pay off debt, which matters. But having higher rates does not affect your score.
  • Savings account balance. Your credit score is based solely on your credit history. Your bank account balance is not a part of your credit history. Rich people can have bad credit too.
  • Your age. Your date of birth might be on your credit report, but it does not play into the calculation of your credit score.
  • Where you live. Sorry, but that swank ZIP code won’t do diddley for your credit score if you’re not paying your bills on time!

What Does Matter

  • Paying on time. Whenever anyone asks me how to increase their credit score, my automatic response is, “Pay all your bills on time. Every time.” One late payment can wreak havoc on your score. You’d be surprised how many wealthy people struggle with this one!
  • Your credit utilization. The balance of your accounts relative to your credit limits definitely makes a difference on your credit report. The closer you are to maxing out, the worse the effect.
  • How long you’ve had credit. It’s called a credit history for a reason. The whole purpose is to help a creditor decide if they should lend you money. The further back you can demonstrate that you regularly pay your debts back, the better your score will be. This is where the advice about keeping a zero balance card open comes into play – just to show how long you’ve had it.
  • New accounts and credit checks. Opening a slew of new accounts (or attempting to) in a short period of time is a red flag to a lender. It can indicate that you’re planning a spending spree or that you are expecting to lose your job. If you’re planning to apply for a mortgage or other loan where your interest rate is determined by your credit score, try to avoid applying for any new credit cards at the same time.
  • The number and type of accounts. There are such things as “good debts” and “bad debts.” Having a mortgage, student loan or car loan looks better (as long as you don’t have late payments on your record), because it implies that you’re responsible enough to maintain a home, go to school and take care of a car. Plus the things that credit bought tend to last longer than the loan, making it good debt. Credit card debt isn’t as flattering – especially a bunch of store cards that are maxed out. Hello, shopaholic!

Finally, make sure you’re checking your credit report annually and cleaning up any errors. (The ONLY official place to get your federally mandated free reports is at www.annualcreditreport.com.) After all, one more thing that can matter to your credit but shouldn’t is someone else’s mistakes.

 

When Not to Pay Down Debt

June 09, 2016

In her new book, What Your Financial Advisor Isn’t Telling You, our CEO, Liz Davidson, writes about how paying off debt can be your greatest investment. As they say, a penny saved is a penny earned so if you pay down credit card debt at 19% interest, it’s like earning 19% guaranteed tax-free. But as with most financial planning guidelines, there are exceptions. Here are some situations where paying down debt may NOT be your best investment:

You can’t pay your bills. If you’re in severe financial difficulty, make sure you prioritize keeping a roof over your head, your car in the driveway, the lights and water running, and food on the table even over paying the minimum on your debts. Don’t jeopardize you and your family’s basic well-being to pay down debt that you might have to liquidate in bankruptcy anyway. In fact, if you think you might file for bankruptcy, don’t borrow or take withdrawals from a retirement account to make debt payments since those assets are generally protected in a bankruptcy.

You don’t have sufficient emergency savings. To avoid the problem above, you’ll want to have some emergency savings. You should have enough cash to cover at least 3-6 months’ worth of necessary expenses.

You can consider your ability to borrow from a retirement plan or the Bank of Mom and Dad as part of your emergency resources but not lines of credit since they can easily be cancelled, especially if you’re in between jobs or the economy is weak. This money should be someplace safe like a savings account or money market fund. Yes, the interest you’ll earn is probably much less than the interest you’re paying on debt, but how do you value avoiding eviction or foreclosure on your home?

You’re not contributing enough to max your employer’s matching funds. The only thing that beats saving 19% interest is earning 50% or 100% on your money. If you’re not maxing the match, you’re leaving free money on the table and getting behind on your retirement saving.

Your debt is costing you less than 4-6% in interest. If the interest on your debt is below 4-6% (after any tax deductions you get for the interest), you could probably earn more by investing extra savings (particularly in a tax-advantaged account) than you’d save by paying down that debt. That’s why they call low-interest mortgages, car loans, and student loans “good debt.” If the interest rate is between 4-6%, your decision depends on how aggressive an investor you are. Conservative investors would likely be better off (and happier) paying down the debt, while more aggressive investors are likelier to earn more by investing instead.

None of this is to suggest that paying down high-interest debt isn’t generally a good idea. These are just the exceptions. If you’re able to pay your basic bills, have sufficient emergency savings, are maxing the matching in your retirement plan, and have high-interest debt, paying it off IS your best investment.

How to Teach Your Kids About Money With An Allowance

June 08, 2016

Do you remember the financial lessons you learned from your parents or other close adults while growing up? No doubt your own financial habits and mindset are influenced to this day by the actions and attitudes you observed as a child. This is a good reminder that your adult behavior around money will most certainly affect your children and other young people who look up to you.

One great way to have a positive influence, even if you’re still on your own personal journey to financial security, is by paying an allowance. There is an ongoing debate about whether an allowance should be tied to household chores or not, but many people agree that it’s a great way to teach children about money and financial responsibility. Regardless of whether you believe children should work for their allowance or whether it should be a gift, here are some tips to make the most of this lesson for your kids.

Be consistent. One of the greatest things an allowance can do is teach your kids how to budget, which requires consistency of income. Whether you pay weekly, biweekly or even just monthly, do it on the same day and in the same amount so they understand the value of making their money last. Caving and paying kids early could be akin to payday loans, which is the exact opposite of what you want to teach your kids.

Help them set goals. This can help them see the value of skipping short-term wants, like candy, in exchange for reaching longer-term goals like a video game. One suggestion is to require kids to put one-third of their allowance into savings and one-third toward a charitable need like an animal shelter or church, with the remaining third available for immediate spending.

Introduce them to banking. Open a savings account for your child’s longer-term savings and show them how to check their balance online, pointing out how interest (however miniscule) accumulates, allowing their money to compound. This is also a great way to demonstrate that the ‘M’ in ATM doesn’t mean “magic.” That cash gets in there somehow!

What if you don’t have the money to pay an allowance? This was sometimes the case in my earlier years, but there are still ways to pass along the lessons even if you can’t pass along cash:

1. Use a grocery allowance. Allow your kids a certain amount of the grocery budget that they can spend on special treats or even for their breakfast foods, which you need to buy anyway. I’ll always remember watching a mom do this at the store. When her son selected an expensive yogurt smoothie, I heard her explain how that was a fine, healthy choice, but if he wanted that instead of the less expensive store brand yogurt for breakfast, he would have to put back the juice he had already chosen. The trade-off was tangible and clear.

2. Keep a written tab. If you don’t always have the cash available on allowance day, simply keep a written record by adding that week’s amount to your child’s tab and then when you buy something for them, subtract it from the tab. This isn’t a bad way to go even if you do have the funds as it’s closer to the way we are paid and spend money in modern times anyway.

3. Remember that it’s often more about the practice than the amount. Perhaps you can’t afford to pay the average $67.80 per month that’s the current going rate. Even just $5 a week can teach the lessons.

These are some great ways to use an allowance to raise financially responsible adults, but I know there are others out there. How do you teach your kids about money? Please let me know via Twitter at @kclmoneycoach or post on our Facebook page.

One Great Reason to Be Optimistic About Millennials and Money

June 06, 2016

Can millennials avoid the financial mistakes of the baby boomers, like not saving enough for retirement and taking on high consumer debt? Our recent 2016 generational research report shows there are some reasons for optimism. For a first-hand account of why, I didn’t have to look any farther than Financial Finesse’s own Maneeza Hasan, our marketing manager.

Maneeza is 29 and single and recently rented her own apartment in the LA area after living overseas for a few years. She paid off her student loans early, has an emergency fund, and has made good progress in her retirement savings. Maneeza has certainly got it together more than I did when I was her age. Here’s what she told me when we sat down to talk about her financial life:

What do employers need to know about what is important to millennials?

Millennials have gone through one of the most brutal recessions in history. They desperately want to have financial stability so they can start having families, investments, houses, and more. Helping them get out of student loan debt and paying them a great salary would keep millennials at the job. Otherwise, there are a ton of other ways to make money these days, and millennials will take on all of them if that would result in the stability they are seeking.

What are the biggest financial challenges that people your age face?

I think getting a financially stable job that is enough to provide a good life is the biggest challenge. It’s very easy for millennials to be “underemployed”, and this causes a lot of necessities and luxuries to go out the window. In addition, most people get into serious levels of student loan debt trying to acquire this stable income.

When you got out of college and started working, did you feel prepared to deal with all your financial challenges? What do you wish you had known?

I was fortunate in finding a very well-paying job (even though I had to move halfway across the world to find it) right out of college. This allowed me to take care of everything (student loans, savings, traveling, etc.) very easily. I wish I had known more about taxes before I graduated. I feel like I never got any real education on how taxes work.

What’s more important to you personally, enjoying life now or saving for the future?

Saving for the future. Enjoying life now happens regardless due to birthday parties, holidays, etc. with friends and family. For me, my savings are the only thing that will help me level up into a better and better life.

Do you want to own your own home? If yes, when would you like to buy?

I would like to own my own home, but I’m wary of being tied down. The world is constantly changing these days, and it is scary to sign up for a 30 year loan. I’d pretty much just want to do it if it was a really good investment. Ideally, I’d want to buy a home once I was married, but if I was stable enough to do it on my own, I would.

How does being multilingual and multicultural influence your financial decisions?

Well, growing up in New Delhi for the first 7 years of my life exposed me to a lot of dire poverty. My family wasn’t poor, but you can see it every day in the city. Being an immigrant to ambitious parents taught me to sacrifice a lot and do what needs to get done to reach that next goal, so I’ve been raised to save, save, save.

Ironically, this saving/investing mentality has resulted in incredible experiences. Living and visiting so many countries has given me a great perspective on the financial reality most people in this world face. That keeps me humble and focused on spending my money on the things that are really important.

If the blog authors could speak directly to people in your generation, what should they say?

Just really help them develop a good game plan for gaining that stability. Most people come up with some really bad ideas that they end up having to pay for years and years. Find low cost ways to get a good job or job training, go to college, etc. Also, be patient when it comes to having their own place, marriage, kids, and helping out family.

Most people want to do these things before they are financially ready. Share basic knowledge like Roth IRAs (I’m a big fan), high interest checking/savings accounts, cheaper options for TV/Internet. Great blog posts can help get them in that mentality of looking for the next financial “hack” until it becomes a habit and a natural part of their lifestyle.

What is the biggest mistake you see twenty-somethings make with their money?

I don’t see them focused on their finances in general. Some think money is just a bad thing, and some just don’t prioritize it. They just live on what they earn and focus on other aspects of their lives. Having an “investor” mentality would make a huge difference in their lives and set them up for their thirties very well.

Do you agree with Maneeza’s assessment of millennials? Email me your comments at [email protected]. You can also follow me on Twitter @cynthiameyer_FF.

 

 

How to Manage Financial Stress in a Chaotic World

June 03, 2016

Periodically, there are times I look at my daughter’s life and think it’s a great time to be her. Right about now is one of those times. She is doing a study-abroad session in Italy, and since I travel for work a lot and know my way around airports, she asked me to take her to the airport.

We live in Baltimore and we use BWI as our “home airport” so I am there quite frequently. I knew that her flight was booked from Philly instead of Baltimore, but when I put the trip into my calendar I simply typed “Take Jordan to Airport” in Outlook about two months ago. As time moved forward, the Philly part slipped my mind, and when I put her bags into my car, I immediately headed toward BWI. 

As we got to BWI, my daughter’s face went white, and she gasped “Why are we here?” (She had been texting her classmates and making sure that she had packed everything.) It was at that moment that I realized my error.

I needed to get to Philadelphia and FAST! I fired up my Waze app, drove well in excess of the speed limit and got her to Philadelphia well in time to get through TSA and customs well for her flight. It was not a stress-free endeavor, but all’s well that ends well. It ended well, so now I’m looking back wondering if there was anything that could have prevented my “stupid human tricks” or a lesson to be learned.

Once she was safely at her gate waiting to board her plane, we had a chance to recap our crazy mini-adventure and think about how it could have been a quicker and less stressful event. She could have reminded me that it was Philly because she knows I sometimes go on “auto pilot” because of a busy calendar. I could have been more descriptive in my Outlook calendar and done a quick check-in with her before leaving the house, saying “we’re off to BWI…correct?” Just a little bit better communication could have prevented a mini-crisis.

I see this with couples that I talk to on a regular basis. They are both working hard to earn their incomes, raise their kids and plan for the future – but sometimes things get missed in the chaos that is life in today’s world. Financial stress is one of the leading causes of marital disagreements and when it becomes too much to bear, it can frequently lead to divorce.

When one spouse handles the financial affairs and the other is completely disinterested and uninvolved is when I see the stress level being the highest with couples. The financial manager often feels unsupported and the financially uninvolved partner can feel powerless or at the mercy of the financial manager. There’s a simple way to avoid that. Weekly, bi-weekly or monthly financial meetings are a great financial management tool, can be done quickly and can keep two people on the same page.

Here’s all you need for a successful family financial meeting: a calendar (I love the ones from the mall kiosks that you see every year around the holidays), 10 minutes and a pen. Since I’m single, I schedule a financial meeting with myself every other Saturday. I pull out my calendar and using June 2016 as an example, will write my “Payday” on the 15th and 30th. I’ll write “mortgage” on the 1st, “utilities” on the 22nd and every other recurring bill that I have on the date that the bill is due. There are sometimes random bills that come up and aren’t in my monthly budget like car insurance, which I pay quarterly or doctor bills if one of my kids has had a visit recently.

When I see it all laid out on my financial calendar (I don’t put anything else on that calendar and I use my phone for all of my other calendars), it helps me stay on track. I’ve shown this system to some of my married friends and some couples that I’ve worked with to help them solve their financial stress. When they see how easy it is, they promise to try it.

I’ve heard from quite a few couples that both partners, the financial manager as well as the uninvolved one, feel much lower stress levels and the “fights about money” go away or are tremendously reduced after implementing this system. For anyone who is struggling with how to reduce the level of discord around your financial life, try this easy way to engage either yourself or your partner in a discussion about money. A calendar, 10 minutes and a pen are WAY less expensive than a divorce!

The Top 5 Mistakes People Make When Paying Off Debt

June 01, 2016

As someone who has dug myself out of credit card debt a couple times, discussing the best way to get out of debt isn’t just some academic exercise. It’s sharing what worked for me, considering the fact that nobody’s perfect. However, in the process of working with people who are struggling with credit card debt, I’ve noticed some common mistakes they make that if avoided, could really accelerate the arrival of their Debt-Free Day. Here are five ways people mess up their debt pay-off plans:

1. Neglecting to address the root cause of the debt first. Most credit card debt stories start one of three ways:

  1. A job loss that doesn’t lead to any spending cuts
  2. An accumulation of unexpected expenses like vet bills, travel for family emergencies, car repairs, etc
  3. Reimbursable work expenses that come in after the bill is due and aren’t applied against the balance

Before you can really implement a debt reduction plan, you have to first address the reason you got into debt in the first place. This is typically a lack of an emergency fund compounded by living beyond one’s means.

First, you have to find a way to make sure you’re spending less than you make each pay period, while also setting aside an amount each month to build up that emergency fund. This might require temporarily canceling services like cable, taking a break from dining out or even selling a lesser-used car. Then find a way to stay within your means using something like the No-Tracking Budget.

2. Continuing to use cards while paying them off. I have seen so many people try this, thinking they would just pay off the new charges each month plus an added amount toward the old balance. It’s often driven by a desire to earn credit card rewards like airline miles or cash back. I don’t care what kind of record keeping system you try, this never works, and the resulting extra interest far exceeds any rewards you earn. You have to stop using credit cards in order to pay them off. No way around it.

3. Using low interest promo offers to pay off old cards, then running up the new card. When done correctly, using cards with promo balance transfer offers can be a great way to expedite your debt pay-off plan. Where it goes completely off track is when people either continue to use the card that was paid off or when they use the new card for purchases, thinking they might as well take advantage of the low promo rate. (See point number 2. If you really want to get out of debt, you have to stop using debt in order to get there.) Then use the Debt Blaster calculator to make your plan.

4. Worrying too much about their credit score. There are multiple factors that affect your credit score, but carrying a balance on your credit card is not required to boost your score. It’s the ratio of your balance to limit and the timeliness of your payments that matters. Besides, your credit score really only matters when you’re trying to borrow money and sometimes when applying for a new job. When working on a debt pay-off plan, the primary number you should be focused on is the total balance of your debt (and making it go down), which will naturally improve your credit score.

5. Making payments willy nilly. When little windfalls occur such as tax refunds, work bonuses or even income from a side gig, it’s a great idea to direct that money toward paying down debt. But I often see people just randomly throwing this extra money at balances without looking at the overall picture. When you find yourself with unexpected extra cash, first make sure that you have a little safety net in place to help in times of unexpected extra expenses. Once you have the safety net in place, go back to your Debt Blaster calculator and see where the payment will have the most impact on your pay-off timeline. That’s what the “New Lump Sum” field is for.

Above all, the most successful debt pay-off plans start with an actual plan. Figure out how much you can afford to pay each month toward the debt, then treat that lump sum amount like a fixed bill until all the debt is gone. Once you’ve paid it all off, you’ll already have a nice amount that you can direct toward saving for other goals.

What Climbing Mt. Everest Can Teach Us About Budgeting

May 31, 2016

Budget – the word can strike fear in the bravest soul. A budget for some is like climbing Mount Everest. Many have tried, many have perished, and the ones who get to the top are never the same again. As I was watching a documentary about Mt. Everest, the similarities between the ones who made it to the top and lived to tell about it and the ones who did not or perished are striking similar to those that successfully use a budget and those that have struggled to stick to a budget:

Unrealistic Expectations. Some of the failed climbers set unrealistic expectations about their own physical health, mental stamina and timeline to climb the mountain. Likewise, I have found one of the reasons why people fail to stick to a budget is that they create an unrealistic one. Look, you eventually are going to buy clothes and eat out. Even if it is not that often, put a dollar amount in the category. If are not sure where to start, look at your spending for last year, divide that number by 12 and use that number as your starting point for your monthly budget.

Not planning for the unexpected. Many climbers did not have a plan for how they would handle sudden changes in weather. Like the climbers, many people do not buffer what I called the “expected unexpected events.” We all know at some point our cars will need repairs and we will need to call a plumber. We just do not know when these things will happen. If you don’t  know how much to save, consider reviewing your bank account for car maintenance and home repair transactions for last year, dividing it by 12 and using that number as a starting point.

Not changing your plan. Successfully climbing Mt. Everest means making adjustments to your plan since your route may change or the terrain might take a climber longer than expected. As our lives change, the budget needs to be adjusted. Where I live in Georgia, my gas bill is higher in the winter and my electricity skyrockets in the summer. Also in the summer, I have to account for summer camp expenses. Review and adjust your budget to account for the highs and lows of your expenses throughout the year.

Of course, sticking to a budget is a lot easier than climate Mt. Everest. We can still learn a lot from it though. Making these adjustments can help you experience the “high” of financial wellness.

 

 

3 Things You Can Do About Student Loan Debt

May 27, 2016

One of the biggest things that we see not only in our research but also in day to day conversations is the impact that huge student loan balances are having on people of all ages, especially younger employees or those who went back to school during the “Great Recession.” My biggest piece of advice to anyone would be to avoid student loans as much as you can by working first and/or part-time, going to a less expensive state school or community college for the first couple of years, or any number of things. But for those that have already rung up a hefty student loan bill, there is still hope. Here are a few things that you can try with little or no pain involved.

1. Focus more on your student loans now but contribute just enough to get the company match to the 401(k) and sign up for the rate escalator feature if available. By putting the majority of your money towards your debt, you can focus your energy and efforts on the here and now but also have your 401(k) running on autopilot in the background. This way, if it takes you 10–15 years to pay off your loans, you are still in a great spot towards retirement instead of being debt free but with no savings.

2. Make your own “matching program” for your student loans. Look at each bill that you have and research to see if you can find a less expensive alternative and then set up automatic extra payments to your highest rate or smallest balance student loan equal to what you will be saving. So if you cut the cable and just use streaming services and it would save you $50 per month, “match” that saving to an automatic increase to one of your student loan payments. This could be a great project on an evening or weekend when rainy weather keeps you inside. If you don’t have the time, look at services like BillCutterz to do the work for you but you have to share the savings with them.

3. Ask your employer if they have any programs to help with student loans. While many employers do not currently have a student loan repayment plan, more and more companies are offering special deals on student loan refinance programs like SoFi or  actual repayment plans like Tuition.io or Student Loan Genius. There is even a bill before Congress to make a certain amount of student loan repayment tax free to the employee, similar to tuition reimbursement programs, so hopefully this will become a common benefit in the future.

Don’t get me wrong. There may not be a magic solution to your student loan issues. However, these steps can help you not just survive but thrive while you balance paying off the debt and engaging in life along the way.

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The 3 Most Important Things Resident Physicians Can Do With Their Money

May 25, 2016

Updated for 2019 numbers

You’ve made it through eight grueling years of schooling, been accepted into a residency program, and you finally have a salary. Even though the average salary for a first year resident is a little over $50,000, it can still feel like hitting the lottery. It’s easy to start thinking about how you’ll spend that money on luxuries you’ve postponed like a nice car or an apartment in an upscale neighborhood while deferring your student loans until you’re making real money in your chosen field. After all, your friends who chose business or law have been living it up through their 20’s and you’re ready to join them.

Not so fast

Before you find room in your budget for things you may not be able to enjoy to the max while working 80+ hours per week, first make sure you’re setting yourself up for optimal financial success. I’m not saying you shouldn’t treat yourself to that luxury car you’ve been dreaming of ever since that first day of class, but first make sure you’re making the most of the savings opportunities you may not have available after residency.

I ran these past my physician husband just to make sure I wasn’t being unrealistic and he agrees. Here are three really important things you should set up before you make your residency budget.

1. Max out your Roth IRA. Take advantage of your lower salary by contributing the full $6,000 allowed into a Roth IRA. There are income limits that could eventually prohibit you from depositing to this account (they start at $122,000 for single people in 2019), so use it before you lose it. A Roth gets money into savings after tax, then allows the money to grow tax-free for life. For eventual high income earners, it’s especially critical to contribute while you can and you’re young, when the money has lots of time to grow.

2. Start paying your student loans. It can be tempting to postpone those payments as long as you can, but I caution against waiting until you feel like you can better afford it. First of all, you’re probably going to be working so much over the next three to four years that you won’t really miss the money, but second of all and more importantly, you’ll avoid throwing money away on interest. It’s all about making your money work harder for you, and using it to pay down loans with an interest rate of 6% or more in some cases can even exceed what you might earn investing the money.

3. Contribute at least to the match in your hospital’s 401(k) or 403(b) plan. Just because you don’t plan to stay at your residency hospital for the rest of your career doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t participate in their retirement savings plan while you’re there. You get to take that money with you when you leave.

Most hospitals offer some type of match for employees who contribute and unless they have a longer than average vesting schedule, that match will be yours when you’re done as well. That’s free money, so don’t pass it up. If you can afford to save more than the match, consider doing so. Time is on your side right now and the more you can save while you’re young, the more the effect of compound interest will have on your future savings.

Becoming a physician in the first place is a great way to ensure a prosperous future for yourself and your family. But even doctors are prone to over-spending and under-saving, especially as the competing costs of real life (buying a house, kids, college, travel, etc.) set in after residency. By buckling down for these last few years, you can doubly ensure your long-term financial security. After all, I’ve never had anyone tell me they regretted saving more money.

 

 

Let’s Get Ready to Rumble…

May 24, 2016

I may have mentioned in prior blog posts that I am a huge boxing fan. There really was no choice. From the time I could crawl, I remember sitting in my dad’s lap watching boxing with my brothers and loving every second of it. (Unfortunately, I loved it a little too much and my teacher once called my parents about a boy I practiced my left hook on – mind you, he did dare me.) My earliest memories of television are watching Michael Buffer introduce the boxers and give his famous tagline,  “Let’s Get Ready to Rumble.”

When summer starts coming and the expenses start mounting, I often think of Michael Buffer’s tagline. Summer time is a rumble between my finances and ever-mounting increases in expenses. Initially, I just noticed that money was tighter in the summer time, not really being able to figure out why. After I discovered the power of creating a monthly spending plan and tracking my expenses over a number of years, I noticed a certain pattern began to emerge in my family’s spending and I was able to prepare for the increases in expenses.

Summer Camp – I live in the south so my kids are done with school and free daycare (public school) at the end of May. Even though they have after-school care and school activities, summer camp is still more expensive. If this sounds like you, consider contacting your daycare about sibling discounts, reductions based on income or early registration. Second, research the summer camps not only for the best fit for your children but for the best value. Consider using last year’s childcare expense as a starting point, divide it into 12 to get a monthly average and contribute that amount to a dependent care flexible spending account (FSA) if eligible so the funds can come out tax-free to pay for your childcare expenses.

Vacations – Make sure your summer vacation does not follow you for the next 6+ months in credit card expenses by saving for it now. Honestly assess your finances to see if you can afford to get away on a vacation or if an inexpensive staycation is a better financial fit. Consider using a  travel budget calculator to estimate your travel expenses. To come up with the amount of money you may need to save for your vacation, divide the estimate by the number of pay periods you have. From there, it’s a matter of setting aside the funds until your vacation.

Utilities – Depending on your climate, you may find your utility bills creeping up. I live in Atlanta and I find my electricity skyrockets in June. If you have a pool, your expenses may go up due to water and pool maintenance. Your water bill may also increase due to lawn care. Review your statements from last summer to estimate your costs for this year and look at where in your budget you may need to cut back to make up for the additional cost.

Holidays – I find Memorial Day, the Fourth of July and Labor Day to be expensive holidays because we typically do a day trip or a lot of activities on those days. Consider thinking through what activities you want to do. Will you be flying or driving? Will you need a hotel? Will you be eating out or munching on picnic foods?

Write down what you think the expenses may be. Add 10% for extras. Then break down the amount by the number of pay periods you have until the event and start saving.

Parties –  If you are like our family and love to cook and feed people then summertime gives you plenty of opportunities as well as expenses. All of a sudden, the patio furniture may need to be replaced and a new grill may be “needed.” Plan for the food and estimate the costs. Then divide the costs by the pay periods you have until the event to estimate how much you may need to save.

Gas:   Typically gas prices go up in the summertime. There’s not much you can do about the increases, but you can look on apps like gas buddy to look for cheaper gas. You can also use some of the fuel economy tips from the U.S. Department of energy like driving the speed limit or removing unneeded items from your truck or using cruise control to make your car more fuel efficient.

Consider thinking about the things you want to do and start saving for them now. One great idea I heard was to create a “summer sinking fund” that you use to save throughout the year so you have a pool of money available for upcoming summer expenses. Saving now, even in small amounts, will a long way into taking out the worry of summer expenses.

 

Quiz: Are You Underearning?

May 23, 2016

Are you constantly scrambling to make ends meet? While there can be many causes to budget problems, including sudden unemployment, overspending and big credit card or student loan balances, one frequently overlooked trouble spot is how much you earn. “Underearning” is the persistent state of earning less money than you are capable of earning, given your education, experience and the economic environment, in a way that negatively affects your financial health.

What’s the difference between underearning and living the simple life…or underearning and choosing to work in a lower paying non-profit or public service job in your field? The key is whether or not you are earning as much money as you need to meet basic living expenses. Underearning is not the same as poverty, although persistent underearning can lead to poverty. Underearning is a type of self-induced deprivation of financial wellbeing.

It is not dependent on profession or income. The medical school graduate who takes a job making less than she needs to pay her rent and student loans is underearning. People can appear financially successful, but still live paycheck to paycheck with a negative net worth. If you can meet all your basic expenses (housing, food, transportation, clothing, health insurance, etc.), save enough for retirement, and have some money left over for enjoying life now without going into debt, you aren’t underearning, even if you don’t make a high wage.

Underearning behavior is a symptom of an underlying belief system. It generally comes from a personal sense of unworthiness and/or lack of self regard, which manifests as an inability or unwillingness to seek appropriate compensation for one’s efforts. Underearning can include active activities such as the PhD in computer science who works in the bicycle shop and lives at home with his parents or the mother who spends all her time volunteering at her children’s’ private school while building up a huge credit card balance paying the tuition.

It can also include passive activities such as failing to turn in rebates after purchases, forgetting to submit benefits-related expenses for reimbursement, or paying excessive brokerage fees for investment management – areas where many busy professionals fail to fully maximize. According to Barbara Stanny, author of Overcoming Underearning: a Five Step Plan to Lead a Richer Life, those who underearn, “devalue themselves, giving away their time, knowledge, skills.” The good news is that because underearning involves some level of self-sabotage, bringing self-awareness and compassion to changing behaviors that deflect money can lead to a full turnaround.

Do you think you might be underearning? Take the quiz below to find out. Rate your answer to each question by assessing how often you engage in that behavior:

Never                   0 points

Rarely                   1 point

Often                    2 points

Almost Always     3 points

____I regularly accept lower-paying work which does not reflect my education and experience.

____I only work part time.

____I don’t think employee benefits are an important part of my compensation.

____I work all the time but I never seem to have enough money.

____I spend most of my week volunteering for causes and organizations.

____I believe most people who have money are greedy.

____I believe most people who have money are unethical.

____I resent people who have money.

____I believe that people who have money only have it because they are lucky.

____I don’t think my skills are worth much.

____I have never asked for a raise.

____I don’t make as much money as I think is fair.

____I feel poor.

____I would be embarrassed to tell my friends how much I really make.

____My income does not cover all my basic needs (food, clothing, shelter, transportation, healthcare).

____I do not save for retirement.

____I have trouble maintaining an emergency fund.

____I only pay the minimum payments on my credit cards and don’t pay them off.

____My income is not enough for me to pay down my debts.

____My student loans are in forbearance or on an income-based repayment plan.

____I incur library fines for not returning books or movies on time.

____I forget to use available coupons or discounts for things I usually purchase.

____I forget to submit rebates or expense reimbursements for which I am eligible.

____My salary is less than 90% of the median salary for those in my profession.

____If I am self-employed, my business is losing money.

____If I own a business, I do not pay myself a sufficient salary.

____Once I find a new job, I want to leave it soon.

____I believe that if I spend money on myself, no more will come in to replace it.

____I believe I will never have enough money.

____I have an advanced degree (e.g., graduate school or professional) but generally earn less than the median U.S. income (about $54,000 for 2014).

____Total Score

How did you do?

0 – 15 points                      Underearning is not a big problem. Congratulations!

16 – 35 points                    Some underearning behavior or limiting beliefs around money

36 – 55 points                   Underearning behavior contributing to financial challenges

55 points or higher           Serious underearning limiting financial wellness

Is underearning something you would like to address? In next week’s post, I’ll write about steps people can take to begin challenge limiting financial beliefs and earn an income that corresponds to their capabilities.  In the meantime, start with the two books listed above. Send me your thoughts or questions at [email protected] and follow me on Twitter @cynthiameyer_FF.

 

Why I’m Thanking Google and the CFPB

May 20, 2016

It’s a regular part of my day to talk to people who are struggling with debt. Some people facing what they consider a crisis level of debt will occasionally make a hasty decision, one that they find helpful in the moment but later regret, and take out a short term loan.  These “payday loans” are available to borrowers with less than stellar credit scores and are readily available in nearly every community in the country, but they are often pretty terrible financial tools.  The interest rates, when looked at as an annualized rate (because rarely are they paid off in the required time, so they continually roll over into new short term loans with the interest continuing to accrue at a high rate), rank up there with the loan sharks in old gangster movies. As a result, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau is working toward getting this payday loan industry regulated and reigned in a bit.

It was refreshing for me to read this article about Google banning payday loan ads on their search engine. The last few people I talked to who had payday loans found their payday lender online after searching for ways to get out of debt. If they used Google to search for ways to reduce/eliminate debt on a semi-frequent basis, payday lenders could show up on their computer screen and look like a way to reduce a short term pressure. Sure, it adds longer term pressure but in that moment of temporary weakness, the short term pressure release seems like a perfectly rational idea. Now, people who search for short term loans or ways to get out of debt will not see payday lenders showing up on their laptop with the promise of solving a problem (by creating a bigger one!).

I’m pleased with Google’s new approach to payday lending, and I’d love to see that industry shrink as more and more people learn more about how to manage their personal financial lives and master the basics. The “basics” as I see it are: spend less than you make, save a portion of each paycheck, build a comfortable reserve fund and avoid high interest debt. Those who do that will be able to avoid the perils associated with these loans.

For anyone considering a payday loan…DON’T! We’d be more than happy to help you consider other alternatives. Ask us a question on our Facebook page, send us a Tweet or mail us a letter with your situation and we’d be more than happy to help you find a better alternatives. The CFPB and Google are taking action on an issue that we have been helping people address for many years, and I, for one, am happy to see the progress.

 

15 minutes Could Save You $150

May 19, 2016

My colleague Tania Brown recently wrote a blog post about cutting her cable cord. It’s something I did many years ago too and never regretted it. If you’re not willing to go quite that far but still want to save some money on your cable bill, another colleague and former Financial Finesse blogger Greg Ward writes about how to negotiate your bill down…

When it comes to in-home entertainment, you have a lot of choices. Phone, television, and Internet services are available through a countless number of providers, but here’s something you may not have thought about. By having so many options, you can have these service providers compete for your business rather than just accepting what they charge you for their programming. Knowing this, here’s an easy way for you to save $150 or more over the next six months.

Contact your in-home entertainment provider right now and ask them what specials they are offering new subscribers. Unless you have recently subscribed yourself, I’ll bet that what they are offering new subscribers is better, either price-wise or programming-wise, than what you are getting today. If that is the case, then you need to be assertive and tell them that you want the same privileges that they are giving new subscribers. In other words, you want more service or a lower price (or both as the case may be).

Now most likely two things will happen. The first is that they will try to accommodate you by offering a different programming package. If you are really looking for a different programming package then hear them out, but if not, hold your ground. Let them know that unless they are willing to work with you, you are willing to work with someone else (i.e., a different provider). Have a few names of other providers that your provider competes with so that they know that you’ve done your homework.

Once you’ve determined that the first operator is not going to be much help, you’ll most likely have to talk with an “account specialist” to see if they might be able to do something for you. That’s good news, because in most cases, the initial person who answers the phone is NOT able to make any concessions. Once you have the account specialist on the phone, you can calmly let them know of your intention to discontinue service in the absence of reaching an agreement. They will also try to accommodate you through other offers, but stand firm.

My experience has been that they WILL make a concession as long as you are kind and persistent. I did this recently, and the specialist was able to apply a $25 discount to my bill for the next six months. That’s $150 in just 15 minutes!

A word of caution: know your other options. Account specialists usually know what their competitors are offering, so if you are going to suggest that you will terminate service if they are not willing to work with you, be prepared to walk.  Hopefully it doesn’t come to that.

7 Things I Didn’t Do When I Was in Debt

May 11, 2016

It may surprise you to know that since graduating from college, I’ve dug myself out of credit card debt not once, but twice. The reasons I got into debt are best saved for future posts, but both times I got out because I reached a point where I basically put the cards away and settled in for the long haul of paying it off. In both instances, becoming debt free again involved some significant lifestyle sacrifices. Here are 7 things that I do today, some big and some small, that I DIDN’T do when I had debt:

1. I didn’t take cabs. One of the things I love the most about living in Chicago is that there are literally at least four ways that I can get from one place to another. When I was facing a $12,000 credit card balance while trying to build a business and working a minimum-wage retail job in 2011, I rode my bike everywhere. If I couldn’t ride, I took public transportation. Riding in a cab was out of the question unless my personal safety was in question. These days I’m more inclined to hop in a cab to save time or if I’m tired, but I still try to avoid paying to get from place to place if I don’t have to.

2. I didn’t go on vacation. This is a tough one, especially since I had a sense of YOLO exacerbated by the fact that I have some pretty major personal travel goals, but part of the reason I was in debt was due to meeting some of those goals. Sure I went places. Friends and family got married and I didn’t miss that, but I’ll always remember the time a close friend got married in Florida and while I attended the wedding, I was unable to extend the visit into a real vacation because I couldn’t afford the extra nights in a hotel or the time away from work. These days, we plan ahead for travel and don’t go if we can’t pay ahead of time.

3. I didn’t shop at Nordstrom. I honestly didn’t even know what the inside of a higher-end department store looked like until I was debt-free. If I needed to buy clothing, I shopped at discount outlets or Target. It didn’t feel right to me to spend money on luxury brands while I was still paying down debt. Now I’m more of a Nordstrom Rack aficionado but only if I can turn around and pay off the charge card the day after I shop.

4. I didn’t drink $12 per glass wine. When I went out with friends, I usually stuck to cheap beer or limited myself to one glass of wine before attempting to move the party to a BYOB situation. Nothing sucks up extra money like alcohol and while these days I can afford to be picky about what I drink, I definitely couldn’t afford to be a wine snob when I was debt-ridden.

5. I didn’t get my nails done. To me, having manicured fingers and pedicured toes is a luxury. And while no one can make my nails look as nice as a pro, this was not a “need” in my book while I was in debt. I did my own or occasionally traded my mom for a good foot rub. (We still do that!)

6. I didn’t get massages. I am well-aware of the health benefits of a good massage and during my years of credit card debt, a fair share of birthday and Christmas gifts were massages, but it was not something that I scheduled on a regular basis. If I could afford a massage, I could afford to pay more on my debt.

7. I didn’t get my hair colored.  I’ve been coloring my hair since the age of 25, and I really appreciate having a colorist fill in my roots every 6 weeks or so. Back in the day though, I did it myself with color kits purchased at BOGO sales at the drug store.

This is what worked for me and my values and it may not work for you. But if getting out of debt is a top priority, then I encourage you to take a look at where you’re spending your money and see if you can cut out one or two of these things in order to increase your payment. For motivation, plug it into the “New Monthly Amount” of the Debt Blaster calculator to see how much sooner you can be debt-free.

 

4 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Graduated From College

May 10, 2016

As I talk to my friends’ graduating children, I am always struck by the hope in their faces. They believe that they control their futures and that their lives will be better. It makes me think about my own graduation and reflect on what I wished someone would have told me about finances:

#1- I will actually have to pay back the money I was taking out in student loans. I do not remember thinking about paying back my student loans. I probably thought that the student loan fairy dropped into my college’s financial aid office after graduation and deleted my debts. If I had known how long and painful it would have been to pay back my student loans, I may have made different choices. I encourage parents to sit down with their kids, calculate repayment costs, estimate their starting salary and give them a cold dose of reality as to what their paycheck may look like after taxes and deductions come out.

#2- The car I stupidly bought after college graduation will become the story I tell people about what not to do when you graduate. I worked so hard to graduate and my car was old so I purchased a car I really did not need. It was cute and in the showroom and the second I saw it, I said “I do.” What I did not realize was that I was also saying “I do” to a 5 year car loan that took almost a 4th of my income at that time. I wished someone would have told me that the car I get will dictate my ability to save money, take vacations and contribute to my 401(k) plan.

#3- A business wardrobe is not a reason to get into credit card debt. I was lucky enough to land a job with a large corporation but I realized that I needed to get business clothes. I used this as an excuse to run up $3,000 in credit card debt on a new wardrobe. I think this included a Coach bag and wallet that I never used. I wish someone would have told me that credit card debt is not necessary and worked with me on a plan to pay it off

#4 – The earlier you contribute to a 401(k) plan, the less you need to contribute. I wish someone would have told me how important it was to contribute early, the power of compound interest and how starting with even a small amount makes a big difference, especially when your employer is giving you free money in the form of a match to help you save for retirement. Talk to younger people about how your choice to save early has helped you or about your regret in not starting earlier. Run an estimate for them so they can see how a little makes such a big difference .

Looking back, I wished I would have gotten a cold dose of “adult” reality. I wished I would have known that being on my own meant that my financial choices had consequences that can easily be taken care of if I had been willing to buckle down and pay off my debts instead of using credits cards to upgrade my lifestyle. The best gift you can give a college graduate is to help them start off their futures on the right financial footing. Work with them on a budget, encourage them to pay off credit card debt, teach them the importance of contributing to a 401(k) plan and help them come up with a game plan to pay off their student loans before their children are in college.