Science has proven that the more time you spend with people, the more likely you are to emulate their traits. There’s even an entire PSA campaign focusing on the peer pressure aspect of money. (The Game is my favorite.) Continue reading “Do You Have Financial Frenemies?”
Dear Financial Finesse: I’m a working mom with three kids and a busy job. I read Financial Wellness @Work and you guys make everything look so easy, but that is just not realistic to spend so much time on financial stuff! I don’t seem to have time to figure out what to do with my 401(k) or work out a college savings plan, and frankly, I’d rather relax or hang out with my family. Is there something simple I can do to manage my money without spending a lot of time on it? – Alexandra, FL Continue reading “The Two Hour a Week Money Prescription”
With two teenage daughters, my wife and I grew tired of the requests. “Can I have money for…” “I need you to buy me…” “I must have…” Continue reading “How We Taught Our Kids To Manage Money”
Do you ever feel like you have no idea where your money is? When I do individual consultations with people, I often find that they have trouble managing their money simply because it’s spread around in so many different places that it’s hard for them to keep track of it. If that sounds like you, there are a couple of ways to simplify your financial life: Continue reading “Simplifying Your Finances: Consolidate Or Aggregate?”
During the last few weeks, I’ve pointed out some of my own financial failures. Well, these failures weren’t exactly complete financial fails because I learned something from them and moved forward with a greater sense of purpose for how to better use wealth to accomplish life goals. Perhaps it is the voyeuristic culture that we live in with constant social media updates and reality TV shows that condition some of us to enjoy seeing others make mistakes right in front our eyes. I don’t know what that really says about our society, but it may just make us feel better to see that others are a little more messed up in the head than we are. Continue reading “Finding Some Good In My Worst Financial Decisions: Part 3”
Within the last several months, I’ve been contemplating the purchase of a home and my sons are a big part of that contemplation. My ex-wife and I split up about 8-9 years ago and I have lived in a few places since the separation/divorce. I’m currently about 15 minutes from my old house (that she still owns) and it’s a quick, easy drive but with two teen boys with active social lives, it seems like that 15 minutes is resulting in 30, 60, 90 or 120 minutes on the Beltway (our version of a highway) on a regular basis. Continue reading “Don’t Let An Old Rule Drive You Broke”
Have you ever made some really dumb mistakes with your money? Perhaps your rational brain was screaming “No!” at the time but your emotional brain won the battle.Well, even though I may be a professional financial planner tasked with leading others to smart financial decision-making, I’ve had some major money missteps along this journey called life too. This week is the first in a series of blog posts about a few of my biggest blunders and how I tried to turn those mistakes into some good old fashioned life lessons. (Unfortunately, some life lessons can be quite expensive.) Continue reading “Finding Some Good In My Worst Financial Decisions”
Since my colleagues, Scott, Tania, and Kelley, blogged about their last ten purchases this week, I decided to join the fun. Looking at my last ten expenses confirmed what I thought. I don’t really buy “stuff” much. It’s all about food, drinks, and women (okay, one woman): Continue reading “The Last 10 Things I Bought: How This 36-Yr Old Single Financial Planner Spent His Money”
When my colleagues, Scott and Tania, joined this Last 10 Buys Challenge on Forbes, I took a look at my spending and initially thought, “No way…this looks BAD!” But then I thought about how I actually like it when my instructor at the gym confesses to struggling with her diet so I figured I should bare it all with thoughts on how I could have done better. Here are the last 10 things I spent money on this week:
In addition to writing for the Financial Finesse blog, I also write for Forbes. One of the Forbes staff members, Samantha Sharf, laid her wallet bare and shared her last ten purchases. She then challenged other writers and readers to do the same. One of our financial planners, Scott Spann, took the challenge and shared his last ten purchases. Realizing first with horror that I am older than he is and second the need for people to see that we are not perfect, I took up the challenge to share my last ten purchases over the weekend: Continue reading “The Last 10 Things This 42 Year Old Mom Spent Money On”
Did you know that this week is the Financial Planning Association’s® 14th annual “Financial Planning Week?” The purpose of the week is to raise awareness of the financial planning process and to enable individuals and families to make prudent financial decisions. You can visit FinancialPlanningDays.org to see if a one-on-one financial planning advice event or educational workshops is being offered in your area. In the spirit of smart financial decision making, here are 10 ways to celebrate Financial Planning Week along with some of our thoughts on how finesse your personal finances: Continue reading “10 Ways To Celebrate Financial Planning Week”
Figuring out how to prioritize the various things you could do with your money is one of the key quandaries of individual financial planning. Should you use extra money to pay off your car loan, boost college savings for your toddler or finally take that trip to Australia? There are countless options, depending on your individual values and goals. But before working toward any of those goals, there are four aspects of your finances that should be in place, no exceptions: Continue reading “4 Financial Ground Rules For Everyone”
A colleague of mine recently shared this article titled “How Far Would You Go to Get Rid of Your Student Debt?” that focused on the extreme lengths many people were willing to go to get rid of their student loans. It’s not surprising when you consider that the average college student graduated this year with over $35k in loans. If they pay just the 4.66% interest rate on federal student loans for undergrads, they’ll pay almost $9k in interest by the time they pay it off in 10 years. But if they can put an extra $300 a month towards their debt, they’ll pay it off in under 5 years and save more than half the interest. They can then put those payments towards buying a home or becoming financially independent. Continue reading “How Far Would You Go To Get Rid Of Student Loan Debt?”
Using credit cards that allow you to accumulate rewards or cash back is a great way to get more bang for your buck. It totally works as long as you start out with no credit card debt and stay that way. But this is also how many people end up in debt in the first place. (There’s a reason that card companies offer those plush rewards.)
The issue of paid maternity leave was in the news again last week when Netflix announced it was giving most of its workers a full year of paid leave upon the birth or adoption of a child. I’d like to think this is a growing trend for American companies and that by the time I’m ready to take maternity leave (no, Mom, this is not an announcement), it will be the norm instead of news. But the reality is that most workers who receive a maternity leave still only get the FMLA-mandated 12 weeks off and then only sometimes with pay. This means that in addition to planning for the added expense of a new person in your family, having a baby includes planning for a temporary (or sometimes permanent) reduction in household income. Continue reading “How Non-Netflix Employees Can Plan For Maternity Leave”
How do you swallow an elephant? One bite at a time. The first time I heard this statement my first thought was: “Yuck! Can we come up an analogy that involves eating an over-sized sundae instead of an elephant?” Once I understood the concept, it became my mantra. Whenever something feels overwhelming, especially something that does not seem like fun, I automatically think, “one bite at a time.” Continue reading “How To Swallow An Elephant”
Which generation has the lowest average credit score? According to this article, it’s the Millennials, who have a 625 VantageScore vs 650 for Generation X and 709 for Baby Boomers. This is unfortunate since Millennials are the most likely to look for a new job or buy a home, which are two of the situations when having good credit can be most important. Continue reading “The Kids (Credit Scores) Are All Right”
It seems like yesterday but I know that’s just my mind playing tricks on me. I’m approaching the ten year anniversary of my husband’s death but at times it still seems like it happened yesterday. I’ve learned so much about myself, other people and life these past ten years. My hope is that this has not been in vain and my story can help someone else.
My husband was only 40 years old and seemingly in great health when he suddenly collapsed and died on a hot summer afternoon. In the blink of an eye, I was a young widow with two little kids. I was working part-time since we had recently moved for his new job, which required him to travel for long stretches of time.
Not only did I lose my best friend and father of my children, but also our source of income and health insurance. The following years were dark and extremely difficult. I felt lost and alone even though many good people were around me. Now however I can look back and see some of the lessons that I’ve learned.
We knew several families where one spouse died unexpectedly and left the family financially devastated so we were determined not to make that mistake. Soon after our twin daughters were born, we met with an insurance agent and bought term life insurance for both of us. As my husband’s career and income grew, he increased the amount of coverage through his employer.
This strategy was a cost-effective way to protect our family against the unlikely odds that he would die young. Thankfully, we had the discipline to do this. Now our family has the financial resources to maintain our lifestyle and meet our goals of paying for our daughters’ college education.
Lesson: It’s never fun to talk about death but it’s something we all need to prepare for. If you have someone dependent upon your ability to work, buy enough life insurance to replace your income. This calculator can help you determine how much is needed then check with your employer to determine how much supplemental insurance you can purchase there. Most times, it is more cost-effective to buy a standalone policy and then supplement the rest with your employer’s group coverage.
I have an engineering degree and had been in the financial services industry for 4 years, but I struggled to help my daughters complete their 5th grade math homework after Larry died. I was unusually forgetful and felt like I was in a dense fog. It was clear that I needed professional help, emotionally and financially, so I found doctors to help me and my daughters deal with our tragedy. Fortunately, I worked for some amazing financial planners and they helped me set up my finances for the long term.
Lesson: Don’t let pride stand in your way of recovery. We were never meant to do life alone. Sometimes we get hit with a curve ball and the smartest thing we can do is get assistance. Check with your HR department to learn about your employee assistance program. Most offer free initial counseling sessions and referrals to local professionals for longer term assistance.
Ask the local Salvation Army, Red Cross or large local churches for assistance with immediate financial needs. If you are overwhelmed with debt, contact a non-profit credit counseling service affiliated with the NFCC to help you develop a strategy for unloading that burden. And if you need financial advice, look for a fee-based CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER(TM) professional who has the credentials, training and experience to guide you towards your goals.
I didn’t want life to continue after my husband died. I couldn’t imagine how I’d make it through the week let alone Christmas, the kids’ birthdays and our anniversary. Those days were excruciating but I learned that it was better to face the situation than hide from it.
A friend suggested that I plan constructive activities on the tough days and create new, happy memories and so that’s what I did. My daughters and I choose to celebrate Larry’s birthday (and not his death) by baking a German Chocolate cake from scratch – his favorite. We then share the cake with friends and family and laugh the time away telling funny stories.
Lesson: Life can knock you flat on your back. Spend time there for a moment to gather your wits, then get up and take a step forward. If you are struggling with debt and cash flow, set up a budget using Mint or YNAB. Then choose a debt repayment strategy such as the “debt snowball” method or paying the highest interest rate debt first. Even applying an extra $25 a month is a big step forward!
Three years later, I was presented with an opportunity to go back to school. I was intrigued but didn’t think it was the right time. A good friend told me, “In five years you will be five years older but what will you be able to say you accomplished? Might as well say that you did this!”
Well, I took her challenge, completed my studies and earned my CFP® designation. Along the way, I have met so many new people and find myself doing what I absolutely love here at Financial Finesse. I found my professional calling and wouldn’t have been here if it hadn’t been for my friend’s prompting and my willingness to go in a new direction.
Lesson: Try something new today. Join a book club. Go to that belly dancing class. Determine if your employer has a tuition assistance program and take a college course. Prioritize your savings so you can nurture your passions and do the things you’ve always wanted to do.
I would never volunteer for the pain my family experienced with Larry’s passing. However, I know we are stronger and more compassionate because of our journey. We’ll open a bottle of fine wine, toast the man we knew and loved, shed a few tears and then laugh the evening away with old stories and talk of new adventures. Happy anniversary!
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In a conversation with another financial planner here at Financial Finesse, the subject of having college–age children elicited laughter as well as groans. Cynthia Meyer and I shared some stories about our past “adventures” in finance and some mistakes we made along the way. She was inspired enough to write this blog post: Continue reading “Money For Grown Ups”
Both my wife and I earn irregular income as freelance writers. Our yearly income can vary significantly depending on what type of projects, contracts, or gigs we land. Many of our friends in Los Angeles earn their living in a similar fashion in fields like editing, sound design, acting, post-production, or line producing. Salespeople, farmers, contractors, small business owners, and artists will all recognize the challenges of financial planning while earning variable income. Continue reading “4 Financial Planning Tips For Irregular Income Earners”
