Beware Black Friday ‘Deals’

November 23, 2018

As we see the full retail advertising onslaught and stores open ridiculously early for Black Friday (some are even opening on Thanksgiving Day now, which I find appalling), please try to remember a couple of things:

1) This is the time of year when emotions can override logic and overspending can occur. I have spoken with countless people who end up with a sizeable chunk of credit card debt because of holiday spending. Go into the shopping season with a list (wow, I’m becoming my mother!) of who you are buying gifts for and set a budgetary target. Then, stick to those targets. Those Black Friday “deals” may not seem like such a deal if they have 19.9% interest tacked on to the balance next summer.

2) The people in your life, if they are anything like me, will be happier to spend time with you than they are with any gift that you might buy. I’d wager that if you think back over the last several years, you probably can’t remember what you bought for each person on your list or what they bought for you. It’s a season of friends, family and togetherness – not retail profits.

Drink some cocoa, enjoy your friends and family – and have a safe, fun, and financially secure holiday season.

My Favorite Credit Cards

January 19, 2017

Do you find yourself stuck with big credit card bills after the holidays? One way to make credit cards work for you instead of against you is by maximizing the points you earn on stuff you buy throughout the year. In fact, I generally enough in points to more than cover my holiday spending.

Don’t forget that this only works if you pay the balance off each month. Late payment fees and interest charges can more than erase the value of points you earn. With that being said, here are the cards I use for each of my major spending categories:

Regular bills: For things like my cable, cell phone bill, insurance premiums, and subscriptions, I use the Chase Ink Cash Mastercard. It pays 5% cash back on the first $25k per year you spend on office supply stores, cellular and landline phone service, and Internet and cable TV services, 2% cash back on up to $25k per year spent on gas stations and restaurants, and 1% cash back on everything else. I keep this card at home so I don’t have to worry about losing it and having to update all my autopays.

Business travel: I use the new Chase Sapphire Reserve, which offers primary rental car coverage and 3 points per dollar spent on travel and restaurants. Those points can then be combined with the Chase Ink points above and redeemed for 50% more in Chase’s Ultimate Rewards portal or exchanged for points 1:1 with one of Chase’s 11 travel partners. There’s a pretty steep $450 annual fee but also a $300 travel credit and a $100 Global Entry fee credit so you can still come out ahead if you travel enough. Finally, it offers a 100,000 point sign-up bonus if you apply by March 12 at one of Chase’s bank branches and spend $4,000 in the first 3 months.

Amazon purchases: I’m an Amazon Prime member and do most of my big ticket spending on Amazon so the Amazon Prime Rewards Visa Signature Card makes sense. It offers 5% cash back on Amazon purchases (for Prime members), 2% back on restaurants, gas stations, and drug stores, and 1% back on everything else along with purchase and extended warranty protections. Not only is there no annual fee, you also get a $70 Amazon gift card for signing up.

Target purchases: I have a Target a couple blocks from my home so I tend to do most of my in-person shopping there. The Target REDcard provides a 5% discount and an additional 30 days for returns. I signed up for the debit card since it provides the same benefits without having yet another credit card on my credit report.

Other purchases: I use the Consumers Credit Union Visa Signature Cash Rebate card. It gives me 3% cash back on grocery stores, 2% on gas, and 1% on everything else. That doesn’t sound that great, but if I spend $500 in a month, I can get a 3.59% interest rate on up to $15k in my Consumers Credit Union rewards checking account and if I spend $1,000 in a month, I get a 4.59% rate on up to $20k in that account. That 4.59% interest rate can easily dwarf the value of other cards’ rewards, especially if you’re more of a saver than a spender like me.

Once I hit $1,000 in a month on my Consumers Credit Union Visa, I use the Citi Double Cash Mastercard. It offers a simple 1% cash back on every purchase and then another 1% cash back when you pay it off for a total of 2% cash back on all purchases. This is a good card to have in addition to any cards you may choose for more specialized spending categories.

Keep in mind that just because I chose these credit cards doesn’t mean they’re the best for you. Think about how you use credit cards and what you spend them on to see which card(s) offer you the most value. (For some, the simplicity of having only one card may be their best value.) Finally, I’m always up for suggestions. If you know a card that might be better for my spending, send me an email at [email protected].

How to Stay Sane During School Breaks

December 20, 2016

I love the holidays. The world seems to slow down a little and I get the time to catch up with friends and family. The chocolate is even better. But with every holiday, comes a winter break and the inevitable question of what to do with the kids comes up. With the babysitters called “TVs” and “iPads” quickly exhausted, the following are cost effective ways to entertain kids during school breaks.

1. Organize babysitting swaps. If you have neighbors with kids close to your kids’ ages, consider doing a swap where parents take turns managing the children, giving the other parents a break. As odd as it may sound, it is sometimes easier to have a lot of kids that can entertain themselves than one or two kids who expect you to be their entertainment.

2. Look for winter break camps in your area. Some are surprisingly affordable, but the affordable ones go quickly so start early. Consider looking into the programs at your  local YMCA or community center.

3. Eat out on the cheap. Eating out in a restaurant is a fun activity for the kids. For many of us, the problem is the expense. MyKidsEatFree.com is a national database of places where your kids can either eat at a reduced cost or for free. You can also Google your local area for places where kids can eat for free.

4. Look for free activities. Stores like the Pottery Barn and Home Depot have fun kids’ activities. Local malls as well as your local public library also host kids’ events.

5. Plan an agenda. I got this one from my colleague, Cynthia, and it worked like a charm. I planned a series of events for the kids to include a talent show. This kept them occupied until the evening. I also had them watch a few movies and created a trivia game of questions to answer about the movie for a prize.

Holidays with the family is wonderful and tough at the same time. With these strategies, they don’t have to blow your budget. Then they can truly be happy holidays.

What to Do When Your Kids Ask for Expensive Toys

December 19, 2016

Do your children ask you – or Santa — for expensive toys? If they’re a kid in America today, chances are that they’ve asked you for an item whose price made you gasp. It could be an American Girl® Doll and accessories, a Thomas and Friends™ train set, a Microsoft® Xbox, or the latest Apple® iPhone.

Say “yes” and you’ll spend hundreds of dollars. It may not be affordable for you to gift something that expensive. Many parents are tempted to put the purchase on a credit card and deal with the payment later. Even if you can afford it, there are reasons to reflect and plan how you will handle the request before agreeing.

Start the conversation about money

A child asking for anything that costs money is an opportunity for financial education. Use your child’s gift request to initiate a conversation about spending, saving and prioritizing. Consider asking your child these questions:

  • How much does it cost?
  • Where will the money come from to pay for it?
  • How do grown-ups earn money?
  • Can you think of ways to save up for this?

For more ideas on how to talk to your kids about money, the Consumer Financial Protection Board (CFPB) has an excellent resource, Money as You Grow. It includes a book club with age-appropriate suggestions to spark money conversations. I also recommend picking up a copy of Ron Leiber’s perspective-changing book, The Opposite of Spoiled: Raising Kids Who Are Grounded, Generous and Smart About Money.

Santa has a budget, too

I’ve always told my kids that Santa represents the giving spirit of Christmas but is imaginary. However, if your kids believe in Santa and have asked for an expensive item on their wish list, talk to them about how Santa has a limited amount of resources to get gifts for all the world’s children. Check out this great interview with personal finance columnist Michelle Singletary for tips on how to explain Santa’s budget.

Have your child research buying options

When my kids ask for a pricey gift or want to purchase a large item with their own savings, they have to do their research first. Ask your child to:

  • Shop around for three price quotes. Show them how to evaluate costs, including shipping.
  • If there are alternatives to their desired version, have them make a grid to compare features and ratings. Ask them to explain how they made their choice of the best buy.

Consider buying a gently used version

If your child is discovering a new line of toy that’s been around for a while, consider buying a gently used version on eBay or your local second hand network. Take Pokémon® cards, for example. For the price of one new “mega” set with 60 cards, you could buy an entire set of thousands from a teenager who has outgrown them.

Sell or give away your kids’ outgrown toys

One family’s cluttered playroom can be another family’s holiday treasure. We’ve been the recipients of many wonderful hand me down toys, including a fabulous kitchen set, dress up costumes, train equipment and Lego® pieces. When your child has outgrown a toy, encourage them to either give it away to a younger child or charity or sell the item and apply the proceeds towards the expensive gift they’ve requested.

Do you have a question you’d like answered on the blog? Please email me at [email protected]. You can follow me on the blog by signing up here, and on Twitter @cynthiameyer_FF.

 

The Best Gifts Don’t Have to Cost a Fortune

November 22, 2016

One of my favorite Christmas gifts was the first one my daughter made for me. To be honest, I am still not 100% certain what it was. It looked like it wanted to be a mug when it grew up but somehow morphed into a mug with a small bowl slated on one side with bumps. My daughter was so proud of her accomplishment and had the expectant look of, “Of course, you know what this is and how to use it,” so I did not have the heart to ask and this interesting interpretation of what a mug is has sat in a box for years.

As I think about the gift, I realize that the best gifts for many people can cost little to nothing. As you start to think of what to get people for Christmas, do not undervalue the gifts that cost little. Here are a few ideas:

1. Certificates for free babysitting, home repairs, etc:  Those of us that have kids know the value of a date night and the expense of hiring a babysitter. Getting a gift of free babysitting is a wonderful way to give couples a night off or to give a single mom a much deserved break. Are you handy, sew or have a valuable skill or talent? Consider donating your skills as a gift. It will be much appreciated.

2. Family pictures in an inexpensive frame: When you have kids, this is a gold mine. You can find some great frames at dollar or thrift stores or you can get creative and inexpensively create a picture frame. This makes a great family activity.

3. Baked goods: If you are a hidden “Betty Crocker,” consider whipping up your favorite yummy desserts and creatively package the delicious gifts.

4. Toy swap: If you have kids, we all know there are piles of toys in practically new condition sitting in the corner or under the bed. A friend of mine came up with the great idea of packaging the toys and swapping them as gifts for Christmas. It was an inexpensive way for us to give gifts to each other and we got rid of things our kids were not going to use anyway.

The gifts listed above are no to low cost and would be greatly appreciated. These are only a few items though so use your imagination to come up with more ideas. Remember, some of the most priceless gifts cost nothing.

 

How to Financially Survive the Holiday Season

November 08, 2016

I love the fall – the changing colors of the leaves and the beginning of the holiday season. For many, this gives us time to spend with family, but for a lot of us, the holidays create a black hole in our wallets. I am sure that it comes as no surprise that Thanksgiving and Christmas are two of the most expensive holidays of the year, but with some planning, these holidays do not have to wipe out your accounts:

1. Review your spending to determine a realistic budget. Before you get caught up in the non-stop “Black Friday” sales that seems to start right after Halloween season, take some time and realistically assess your budget to come up with a total dollar amount you can spend on family gifts. Consider using your bank’s software or websites like, Mint to help you create a budget.

2. Come up with a game plan for who will and who will not get gifts. I have a HUGE family: 5 brothers and sisters and close to 20 aunts and uncles between both my parents. (Don’t get me started on first cousins, much less second and even third cousins.)

I limit gifts to immediate family members, and I give either a family photo or a photo of the kids in an inexpensive frame for family gifts. Decide who will get gifts and come up with a game plan for other family members. Remember, gifts can be more than something you purchase- yummy desserts or an offer to babysit or do another needed service for a family member are great gifts.

3. Start shopping now for great gifts in inexpensive stores. The best time to hunt for gifts in inexpensive stores is now. Also, start searching consignment shops, particularly for kid’s gifts. A few years ago, we got an expensive all wooden dollhouse filled with wooden furniture and dolls for under $25 at a local consignment shop. Start slowly going to local stores to find some great deals.

The holidays can be financially stressful. However, they do not have to be if you take the time to plan ahead. Start planning now so you can save later.

 

 

 

How to Survive the Holiday Break With Your Kids

December 22, 2015

I really do love my kids. But after two weeks of being indoors with them, we both welcome the new school year. I am always on the hunt for inexpensive things to do to keep my kids occupied during this season. Here are some of my favorites: Continue reading “How to Survive the Holiday Break With Your Kids”

How to Give Back During the Holidays

December 01, 2015

The holiday season is one of my favorite times of the year. I get to enjoy endless samplings of every chocolate dessert imaginable, while spending time with the people I love. How can it get any better? Continue reading “How to Give Back During the Holidays”

How To “Budget-Bust Proof” Your Spending Plan

September 01, 2015

Okay, I am going to call this Confession Tuesday. I have spoken to so many people that struggle with creating a budget. I can hear the guilt and even shame in what seems to them like their inability to live within their means. Continue reading “How To “Budget-Bust Proof” Your Spending Plan”

Happy Holidays Now and in January

December 01, 2014

The holiday season is officially here and I can honestly say that it may take me a few days to fully recover from Thanksgiving dinner (and a few rounds of leftovers). Despite spending about 20 hours in a car, it was fun setting some time aside to do nothing but eat, watch football, and express a little gratitude. In our household, the peaceful tradition of starting an Advent calendar on December 1st is usually countered by the hectic activity of trying to coordinate family logistics for the next month. Continue reading “Happy Holidays Now and in January”

Think Long Term For The Holidays

November 11, 2014

So the weather is cooling down and immediately we start thinking about all of the yummy holiday food and spending time with our loved ones. After we start basking in the glow of chocolate chip cookies and family, it slowly starts to sink in that this time of the year is expensive. Between traveling, Thanksgiving Day meals, and presents, you and your wallet are exhausted by New Year’s. So what is a gift-giving person to do? Continue reading “Think Long Term For The Holidays”

The Season of Generosity

November 10, 2014

One of my favorite pre-holiday meetings involves gathering the kids together to discuss our holiday plans. In our household, it’s inevitable that kids will find that perfect moment of cute childhood brilliance to break out their Christmas wish list at a moment when they are polite and well-behaved. In the spirit of giving to others, my wife and I encourage them to also create a wish list for things they would like to give to others in need. Before you start donating online or breaking out those checkbooks, let’s review the basics of why, when, who and how. Continue reading “The Season of Generosity”

6 Ways to Save on Holiday Get Togethers

December 20, 2013

The holiday season invariably presents a variety of ways to separate your money from your wallet. There’s entertainment like shows and concerts, gift giving for friends and loved ones, and let’s not forget about tipping and gratuity – you can’t forget your child’s teacher, your dry cleaner, or even your postman. Although you never want to look cheap, it is important to save money during the holidays wherever you can.  Continue reading “6 Ways to Save on Holiday Get Togethers”

Some Important Things to Focus On This Week

December 24, 2012

The focus  for many around the holidays is family, food and fun not finances.  This is as it should be because even though life requires a lot from us, it is meant to be enjoyed. Although we are striving to always save more, manage our money better,  insure against losses, and get our necessary papers in order, it’s also important to stop and smell the roses (as they say). Continue reading “Some Important Things to Focus On This Week”

Give From the Heart, Not (Necessarily) From the Wallet

December 19, 2012

Christmas is supposed to be a time of goodwill and cheer as families and friends gather to celebrate the holiday.  Unfortunately for some, this will also be a time of nerve-racking stress as they compete with other shoppers to find the best deals on gifts in an attempt to check off every item on their list.  In the end, many will have little more to show for it other than an upset stomach and a large credit card bill.  This year, rather than succumb to the pressure advertisers put on us to buy, buy, buy, let us instead choose to give, give, give. Continue reading “Give From the Heart, Not (Necessarily) From the Wallet”

Tips to Keep Your Holidays Debt and Stress Free

November 30, 2012

As I write this, it’s only a month before Christmas and all I’ve seen and heard today are ads about Black Friday & Cyber Monday.  I have to admit that it makes me not want to shop at all this year!  (If you’re on my Christmas list, you might want to read another planner’s blog this week!)  Continue reading “Tips to Keep Your Holidays Debt and Stress Free”

Finding Money for the Holidays

November 25, 2010

Can you believe the holidays are upon us already?  A joyous time of year can also be the cause of undue financial stress if we don’t plan for it.  Luckily I learned the lesson of socking some money away to prepare for the lavish gifts I bestow on others (sarcasm intended).

So I figured,  what a great “gift” to give all the faithful blog readers, some tips on preparing for not just the holidays but really any major purchase, like that big screen tv you want! Continue reading “Finding Money for the Holidays”