What To Do After a Spouse Passes Away

January 12, 2017

One of the most difficult experiences to live through is the death of your spouse. In addition to dealing with grief, there are a host of financial and legal matters to attend to. To help relieve the stress during an already difficult time, here is a checklist of items to take care of:

Get an inventory of assets, debts, insurance policies and bills. This is particularly important (and challenging) if your spouse primarily handled financial affairs. You can use this Financial Organizer to record the information.

Request a copy of your spouse’s credit reports from each bureau so you can see all the debts owed. (You can get free credit reports every 12 months at annualcreditreport.com.) Don’t forget to contact their former employers for accrued but unpaid salary, bonuses, and vacation/sick pay, pension survivor benefits, and life insurance policies. You should also see if they had any life insurance through their credit cards any any lost policies here. Finally, you’ll want to ask the funeral director for at least one copy of the death certificate for each account, life insurance policy, any real estate property with their name on it.

Close or re-title accounts. Here is a breakdown of how to deal with various types of assets:

  • Annuities and life insurance policies: After presenting the insurance company with a death certificate, the death benefits (which may be different from the cash values) will be paid out to the designated beneficiaries.
  • Assets solely in the spouse’s name: These will have to go through the probate process and will pass on to the person designated in the will or if it’s not in a will, according to state law.
  • Assets jointly owned with rights of survivorship: These assets will pass to the joint owner(s) when you present the bank, investment company, or county records office and mortgage company (in the case of real estate) with a death certificate. If there’s a mortgage on the real estate, you may want to wait until the other affairs are settled since there’s a risk of the mortgage being called.
  • Assets with a beneficiary (living trust accounts, qualified retirement plans, 529 plans, HSAs, bank accounts with “payable on death” registrations, investment accounts and vehicles with “transfer on death” registrations, and real estate with beneficiary deeds): After presenting the financial institution holding the account, the DMV (in the case of vehicles), or the county records office and mortgage company (in the case of real estate) with a death certificate (and trust documentation or notarized trust certification in the case of a living trust), the asset will pass on to the beneficiary. An IRA can stay in the name of your spouse as an inherited IRA and the beneficiaries would only need to take required minimum distributions according to their life expectancy. Other qualified plans may need to be paid out to the beneficiaries over 5 years but the beneficiaries can avoid this by rolling the accounts into inherited IRAs, which can be stretched over their lifetime. Finally, as the spouse, you have the unique option to roll any inherited retirement accounts into your own IRA to defer the taxes as long as possible.

Make sure the bills are paid on time. Otherwise, you can get hit with late charges and a lower credit rating for late payments on any bills with your name on them. If you do get assessed late fees, ask to see if you can have them waived due to the circumstances. Cancel any services or subscriptions that are no longer needed (you may be able to get refunds) and put the rest in your name. Don’t forget that your spouse will still owe income taxes and while the federal estate tax return is due 9 months after their death, state estate tax return deadlines can be earlier.

Apply for benefits. If you or your children were receiving health insurance through your spouse’s employer, you may be able to qualify to continue it under COBRA. You may also be able to qualify for Social Security survivor benefits if you’re taking care of a minor child or are at least 60 years old and for VA benefits if your spouse served in the military. If you have a child in college, contact their financial aid office to see if you can qualify for additional aid. Finally, you may receive benefits from any unions your spouse was a member of.

Review and update your financial and estate plans. Re-assess your new income and expenses and make any adjustments that may be necessary. You might also want to run a new retirement calculation and consult with an estate planning attorney to see if you need to update any of your estate planning documents like an advance health care directive, will, durable power of attorney, and living trust. If your spouse owned a business, you’ll also want to consult with the business’ attorney on next steps.

Nothing here can ever make the loss of a spouse easy. Hopefully, it can make it a little less difficult though. Sometimes, that’s the best we can hope for.

 

 

 

How’s Your Financial Life?

January 06, 2017

With today being my first post of 2017, it’s a great time to spend an hour or two over this weekend looking back at the year that was and looking forward to the year that is just starting. I have an annual tradition that I started long ago and will continue for as long as I am lucid. Feel free to use my annual process as a starting point, tweak it, and make it your own.

Each year, I put together a quick “How’s my financial life?” spreadsheet. I only need a few reference sources and in less than 30 minutes, I feel like I have a much clearer understanding of where I stand financially. Along the top of the spreadsheet, I list the year and on the vertical (Column A), I list the things I want to measure annually. Here are the things I measure and where I find the information:

Total Assets – I use this Financial Organizer. The goal is for this to increase each year.  Tracking the dollar and percentage increases are things I’ve added to my simple spreadsheet over time.

Total Debt – This is also found on the Financial Organizer. The goal is for this to decrease annually and eventually get to $0!

Net Worth – This is simply the total assets minus total debt. An increasing net worth is my primary financial goal each year.  This is another thing I track in dollar and percentage terms.

Annual Income – I use my last pay stub of the year. This is a number that should go up each year and if it doesn’t – that could be a warning sign. Or it could mean that you’ve happily retired or downsized your work stress level.

Estimated Mortgage Payoff Date – I pay a bit of extra principal with each payment and at year end, my mortgage company can calculate when the mortgage will be paid in full at my current level of extra principal payments. You can also build this yourself with an “amortization calculator.” (If you Google that term, you’ll find a bunch of them). This is important to me because when my mortgage is paid off, I’ll consider myself financially secure. At that point, my embedded cost of living will be property taxes, insurance, utilities, food and fun.

401(k) Balance and 401(k) Contributions for the Year – For the contributions, I need my last pay stub for the year and for the balance, I can either log on to the website of my 401(k) provider or quickly check Mint for my balance. Each year, I enjoy seeing the balance go up! (I wasn’t so happy with this back in 2008, though.)

Savings Balance – This is one I like to track in order to make sure I have an adequate emergency fund. I enjoy seeing it go up, although it took a big step backward last year because I used a chunk of savings as the down payment on a house. So while I wasn’t ecstatic when I saw that the balance went down, I understand why it did and will work to build it back in short order.  I can check this balance in Mint while I get my 401(k) balance, so locating the info is the easiest part of the job.

Life Insurance Death Benefit – I check this each year to ensure that should this be my last year on the planet, my mortgage can be paid off, my kids’ college can be handled without loans and there could be something left over for them to have a little head start in life, along with a few of my favorite charities getting a few bucks to do the great work that they do. I have to check a file in my desk to make sure that my information is up to date. We had a change in benefits at work and I replaced one policy with another last year so this is a data point that is in flux.

Date of Last Will Update – This is another item that I need to look in my desk drawer files to confirm. Looking at it this year, I’m probably due for an update. The last update of mine was almost 10 years ago, right after my ex-wife and I separated. (It’s amazing how quickly a decade can fly by when you’re having fun!) Hitting the 10 year mark or a significant life change are my triggers for updating this important document, along with my powers of attorney and healthcare directives.

Those are the data points that I can put together in the time that it takes me to watch one college basketball game. (Hey, it’s nice to have a pleasant distraction while working on your financial life.) So pick a game to watch and get busy.

What to Do for 2015

January 16, 2015

I usually view “what to do at year end” and “what to do to start the new year” financial articles with great disdain (the same way I typically avoid writing “theme” blog posts for Valentine’s Day, Mothers’ & Fathers’ Day, Independence Day [is there any bigger cliché?], and any other over-played theme). However, I have spent most of my work hours early in 2015 talking to people who want to look at things they can do in the next 12 months in order to make progress toward becoming financially secure.  It’s only because I have been asked so often that I’ll cave in, become part of the crowd and write a “What To Do for 2015” suggestion list. Continue reading “What to Do for 2015”

Dude, Where’s My Card?

April 04, 2013

It was April 1st so I hoped that it was just an April Fool’s joke. I was at the grocery store checkout and reached for the credit card that I generally use for groceries but it was nowhere to be found. After paying with a different card, I called the credit card company to see when the last transaction was. Fortunately, it was at the restaurant where I had lunch that day so no one else had used it. After putting a temporary hold on my credit card, calling the restaurant and everywhere I had been afterwards and searching my home and car, I had to accept that it was gone and cancel the card. Continue reading “Dude, Where’s My Card?”

Reflections After Tax Day

April 20, 2012

We just got past April 15th, otherwise known as “Tax Day” to many Americans.  Actually, it was the 17th this year, but who’s going to let a mere 48 hours change our perception of April 15th?  In the days leading up to April 17th , it was impossible for me to go more than a few minutes without being asked a question about taxes, asking someone a question about taxes or seeing a tax piece on the news or online.  I felt like I was seeing tax information even while I was asleep. Continue reading “Reflections After Tax Day”