A Balanced Approach to Cutting Back

February 22, 2023

As a financial planner, I enjoy listening to other financial planners. I love when they discuss strategies to help people get out of debt and better manage their money. Although I agree with many of the money management strategies, it strikes me that some approaches are extreme. Additionally, many common strategies have little room for a more balanced approach.

For those knee-deep in a financial crisis, I agree that drastic financial cutbacks are needed to climb out of an emergency. There may be a better approach for others not in crisis but need ways to save and pay off debt. I always tell people to gauge what strategy will keep them consistent in paying off debts and saving more. The more extreme you cut back, the quicker you will reach your goals. However, you can still reach your goals and enjoy some of the extras in life with a little modification:

Cable and Streaming Services

I do agree that cable is a want, not a need. However, perhaps watching football or the Real Housewives of “insert city here” is one of the joys in your life. In that case, consider reducing your cable plan to a cheaper streaming service covering your most watched channels. Better yet, look at cable alternatives such as Sling TV or Playstation Vue, where you can watch your favorite cable channel shows in real time. Or rotate your “extra” streaming services so you’re constantly binging the hottest show.

Eating out

Again, if you are in a financial crisis and are seriously behind on your bills, you may have to eliminate eating out. However, if this isn’t the case, and you can’t seem to stop eating out, consider simply cutting back. If you spend an average of $20 eating out and cut it 2x weekly, that’s $40 a week, $160 a month that can go towards saving for emergencies or paying down debt. If you have a typical weekday at work that you work longer or a day where your kids have a lot of after-school activities, you could make those eating-out days (give yourself a budget) and still save towards your financial goals.

Entertainment

Consider some modifications if you are single and going out is your main social activity. For example, you can order an appetizer or a small salad if you eat before going out with friends. Your wallet will thank you. Better yet, skipping drinks with your meal or having only one cocktail with your friends can save even more money.

If you enjoy going to movies, check to see if your employer offers movie ticket discounts. Look for deals using websites like Groupon or Living Social, or search for dollar movies in your area. If you go to a big event, consider either not buying food since it is so expensive or getting the kids’ options, which are cheaper but still give you your food fix.

Cutting back doesn’t have to mean extreme deprivation. As you can see, you can still enjoy your life and save money. The key is looking for certain areas to cut back in and modifying the areas that matter most to you so you can save money with a more balanced approach.

Do You Really Need to Spend That Much on Entertainment?

September 30, 2016

As the baseball season winds down, and my beloved Baltimore Orioles are in a downward spiral and may fall out of playoff contention, the big story on local sports radio is about the lack of attendance at Orioles games in the midst of a playoff race. When Oriole Park at Camden Yards (the best ballpark in the country in my opinion) opened 20+ years ago, it was sold out every night. 14 years of losing baseball, as well as some questionable business practices, drove attendance down over the years.

Several seasons ago, the O’s made it to the playoffs for the first time since the late 90’s, and the town went nuts. It was tough to get a ticket at the end of the year, and playoff tickets were being sold on the secondary market for outrageous sums of money. This year, I’m almost embarrassed to say that I haven’t made it to a game yet, and tickets are available on the secondary market for next to nothing. My kids haven’t expressed interest this season. Friends that I normally go with haven’t been all that enthusiastic.

It’s weird. If I don’t go in the next week or two, I will go a whole season without going to a game. That may not have happened since I was 2 or 3 years old, and I’m questioning why I haven’t. It hasn’t bugged me until today. That’s an answer that I’ll wrestle with on my own, and as I write this, I’m checking the O’s home schedule and sending a message to friends to make sure we at least get to one game.

While I wrestle with this question, it also raises the larger issue of how I spend my entertainment dollars. Along with the cost of housing, cars and food, entertainment is one of the big line items in most family budgets. Vacations, cable TV, movies, sports tickets, concerts, shopping, going out for dinner – there are a lot of dollars being spent on entertaining ourselves. When we are having a tough time making ends meet, the entertainment budget is usually the first to go. When it doesn’t, credit card bills can mount.

Most of the people I’ve talked to who are in deep credit card debt will tell me that they spent the money on “stupid stuff” (their words, not mine). A lot of times, it was because times were tough, and they felt that all they did was work, so they wanted to “reward themselves” with a little bit of fun. That fun usually ended up on a credit card, and a $100 expense turned into a $300 payoff amount after many months of minimum payments and high interest rates.

Here’s my challenge to you: Take a look at how much money you’ve spent on entertainment over the last 3-6 months. Are there ways you could have just as much fun while spending less? Hikes, bike rides on local trails, and a kayak rental at a local lake are all very low cost ways I’ve replaced my fairly expensive baseball habit. Rather than eating stadium nachos (now I’m hungry!) and drinking expensive yet lousy beer, I’ve been sweating and spending way less money while drinking water and eating protein bars.

If I can do it, you can too. Find one habit/entertainment source where you think you might spend more than you’d like. Pick a fun and free (or close to free) activity to replace the more expensive one. Spend the next 30, 60 or 90 days re-configuring your entertainment habits. I have a hunch you’ll find the change of pace enjoyable, and you might even be able to REALLY reward yourself in the long run.

How Better Internet Service Can Pay For Itself

February 12, 2014

In my last blog post, I talked about how I was able to save money by upgrading my Internet service. It’s not usual that you can actually get better service for less money, but even if upgrading your Internet service doesn’t yield a lower monthly bill, it can still save you money. Here’s how: Continue reading “How Better Internet Service Can Pay For Itself”

How to Slash Your Entertainment Budget This Summer to Less Than $100!

June 18, 2012

Entertainment seems to be a universal budget crasher. My son Brian told me that he tries to stay in his budget but sushi night always puts him over. He has subsequently switched to the 10 cent wings night at his local barbeque place and bragged to me that he ate something like 35 chicken wings in one sitting. Entertainment, which inevitably involves expensive food, will bust a budget every time. My friends and I went on a hike this past weekend (free!) but afterwards we grabbed lunch with a group of friends so each couple ended up spending something like $35 bucks on lunch and libations. There goes the benefit of the free entertainment. Continue reading “How to Slash Your Entertainment Budget This Summer to Less Than $100!”