When “None of the Above” Isn’t an Option

June 17, 2016

As I type this, Hillary Clinton is giving a speech after winning the California and New Jersey primaries and becoming the Democratic party presumptive nominee. This is merely weeks after Donald Trump gave his speech after wrapping up the Republican primaries as their presumptive nominee. Most people I’ve talked to and seen commenting on my social media accounts wish that they had a “D – None of the above” option like there is on standardized tests.

I don’t think I’m going out on a limb by saying that, as a country, we should be able to do better than these candidates.  A lack of great available options isn’t just an issue in politics though. It’s a problem in the financial lives of many people that I’ve talked to recently.

If you are confronted with a bad situation, there are some things you can do. First, try to think of as many potential solutions as you can. Consider consulting with people you know and trust or an unbiased financial planner for ideas. You might be able to come up with a better solution this way. If not, make a list of pros and cons for each potential solution and prioritize what’s most important to you.

For example, one person I talked with was in a bit of a financial jam, and my goal was to help her find a way to a better place.  She had recently gone through a divorce, and her budget included receiving child support from her ex-husband. He has chosen to change jobs and now works “under the table” for cash so that it is not reportable. If it’s not reported, she can’t collect, and now her living expenses exceed her income.

The child support would have been deposited into savings for her kids’ education and for emergencies. Instead, she taps into savings for about $100/month to maintain her current lifestyle. We talked through a few options:

• Sell the house and downsize. Reduce the mortgage by several hundred dollars per month so that there is wiggle room. (She just refinanced when she bought the ex’s portion of the house, so a simple refi is not an option.)

• Get a part time job and work when the kids are with their dad in order to generate some income to cover the gap.

• Cut the cord and get rid of her high end cable package.

• Get rid of her car with a $500/month payment and get something less expensive.

• Hire an attorney or investigator to track her ex-husband’s financial life and then go to court in order to get child support dollars flowing in.

• Suck it up, hope for the best and continue to grind forward as is.

Each option has its downsides and she viewed all of them like many Americans are viewing Trump v Clinton. But just like in politics, there is no perfect solution, and trying to find one can prevent you from choosing a good one or at least the “least bad” one. I don’t know which option she’ll end up picking, but she’s now in a better position to make a decision. After all, sometimes making no choice can be the worst choice of all.