What I Wish I Had Known When I First Started Working

September 06, 2016

I don’t know about all of you, but the older, I get the faster time seems to go by. I feel like yesterday I was babysitting my kid’s friends and today I am watching them graduate from college. After one of my friend’s kids graduated from college, I went to a party celebrating the achievement. While at the party, I was listening to a conversation with my friend’s daughter and her friends, most of whom are also recent college graduates.  Luckily for them, we are in a better job market and almost all of them are either employed or getting ready to start new jobs.

As I listened to their conversation, I started to feel a sense of dread at the direction their conversation was going in. Their discussion was focused on getting paid the most money, moving to a “hot” new city (whatever that means) and what car they are going to buy themselves. I told them that the decisions you make your first working year will lay the foundation of their future financial success or demise – their choice. At that point, I had their undivided attention and I started talking to them about some of the things I wished I would had known when I first started working.

The best job is more than the highest salary. When I looked for my first job, the only thing I considered was the salary. I never stopped and considered that a lower salary that pays more benefits could net me a higher total compensation than a higher salary with crappy healthcare benefits. As you consider your next job, think carefully about the offer. How much will your new employer cover for healthcare benefits?

I also never considered my ability to grow my career. A higher future salary could easily outweigh a lower starting one. Consider how many opportunities you may have to progress in your future organization.

Your location will determine how far your money will go. One of the young women I spoke to was currently working in Georgia and thinking about a lateral career move to New York City. Being from Brooklyn, I told her she has to consider the difference in income and encouraged her to do a paycheck calculator to see what her net pay may look like with a move.  She was shocked at how much her net pay decreased.

Next ,I encouraged her to use a cost of living calculator to compare how far your income will go in one state or city vs. another. She needed almost a $30,000 increase in salary to maintain the same lifestyle she had in a small town in Georgia in New York City. If you are deciding on a move, consider doing a paycheck calculator and a cost of living calculator so you won’t go into sticker shock when you move.

The lower you keep your lifestyle now, the better quality of your lifestyle in the future. Remember that where you live now may not be where you will live in a few years so keep your home expenses to about 25%-30% of your net income so you have money left over for other goals and possibly a move. I pretty much went stupid when I got my first professional job. I convinced myself that I had to look the part and spent thousands on a wardrobe. You can look professional without going broke by shopping for high quality professional clothes at consignment shops.

Fortunately, I kept my old car though. This was probably one of the best decisions I made. I was easily able to make the move for a great career opportunity because I kept my expenses so low. If you end up getting a loan, consider following the 20/4/10 rule – put a 20% down payment, finance for no more than 4 years, and make sure the total monthly vehicle expenses (principal, interest and insurance) are no more than 10% of your gross monthly income.

Understand that good money management equals financial success. I wish I would have prioritized my finances better. I would have created a monthly spending plan that outlines ALL of my spending (including car maintenance, vacations, and gifts), saved 3-6 months of expenses, contributed at least enough to get my 401(k) match and attacked debt sooner. Use calculators like the Debt Blaster to come up with a game plan.

If you’re just starting your career, you have a tremendous opportunity to shape your financial future. Taking these steps before making a financial decision can go a long way to building a lifetime of financial success. You can do it!

 

 

 

An Unusual Place to Shop This Time of Year

December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas Eve everyone!  Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the house, not a creature was stirring…except my wife who found herself making an unexpected, last-minute shopping trip because someone forgot to tell her that they needed formal wear for a Christmas concert the next day. While this may cause the average person to recoil in frustration, read on to see how my wife responded under these less-than-ideal circumstances. What she has to say may just be the little Christmas miracle you’ve been looking for this year. Continue reading “An Unusual Place to Shop This Time of Year”

Out With The Old

December 16, 2014

As the cold weather settles in for the winter here in the northeast, out come all the wool sweaters and turtlenecks from the back of the closet.  This is also the time of year I do a once over of my wardrobe to prepare for my yearly donation to Goodwill. Now, I don’t have any sweaters that could win in the contest for the ugly Christmas sweater party, but there are a few that I accidentally washed and shrunk that no longer fit. So these shrunken sweaters, along with out-of-fashion cowl neck and peplum tops, need to go. Even the long, flowing waterfall sweaters that I stocked up on last year are no longer fashionable, according to whowhatwear.com. Continue reading “Out With The Old”

How Buying Clothing is Like Investing

May 29, 2014

Last week, I wrote about how I was able to buy a new set of clothes without breaking the bank. In the process, I realized something else too. It turns out that putting together a wardrobe is a very similar to putting together an investment portfolio. Here are some lessons I learned and how they apply to investing: Continue reading “How Buying Clothing is Like Investing”

How to Dress Well for Less

May 22, 2014

Now that we’re almost halfway through the year, how are those New Year’s resolutions going? If you’re like most people, you probably resolved to lose weight and pay down debt this year. But while there’s no downside to paying down debt, I’ve learned that there is a downside to losing weight. Continue reading “How to Dress Well for Less”

Clothes Too Tight After Turkey Stuffing?

December 03, 2013

Did you try to put that cute winter sweater on for the first time this year, only to find that eating way too much turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing is resulting in your unsuccessful attempt to stuff yourself into clothes that are now too tight? Well, I don’t have a magical dieting solution, but I’m sure someone else might just find that sweater a perfect fit. Whether some of your clothes are now too tight, too loose (I wish!), or just simply out of style, the solution is to donate these items to someone who CAN wear them.  Not only can someone else make good use of your castoffs, you might even be able to take a tax deduction.  Continue reading “Clothes Too Tight After Turkey Stuffing?”

Back to School Money Lessons: Making The Most of a Bad Economy

August 27, 2012

My friends are all posting their back-to-school photos of their kids and grandkids – they are so cute with their new clothes and backpacks! I miss the days of dropping my own kids off on those first days of the school year…well, except the first few years. I didn’t let them see a little tear in my eye as they walked into their classrooms looking so grown up.  Continue reading “Back to School Money Lessons: Making The Most of a Bad Economy”

Ladies: How to Look Stylish on Your Summer Vacation for Less

May 21, 2012

I think I have spent enough money on clothes to wear on vacations over the years to fund another week long vacation!  Like many people, I am budget conscious and watch the deals like a hawk trying to get the most for my money but then forget about my wardrobe! Last minute, I run to the department store to pick up some things to wear and there are no bargains to be found. Continue reading “Ladies: How to Look Stylish on Your Summer Vacation for Less”