Getting Smiles Into Your Days

March 03, 2017

As I sat down to write a blog post, my phone’s text message alert went off.  One of my friends sent a message that he was watching the Baltimore Orioles first spring training baseball game of the year. He sent that to a group of us who get together periodically to go to baseball games and that message made me smile. When pitchers and catchers report to spring training, it tells me that warm weather is right around the corner. The first day of spring training games is almost a holiday in my mind.

Opening Day is one of my favorite days of the year. As a kid, my uncle took me to a lot of Opening Day games in Baltimore and that feeling of being a kid taking the day off from school to watch baseball still hits me as an adult. Baseball, to me, means the end of winter and the start of spring and summer which are my favorite seasons.  It’s all about renewal and hope (for a winning season). On Opening Day, everyone believes that their team has a shot at winning the World Series. 

I’ve seen the spirit of hope and optimism hit employees of our client companies when we have had a few conversations and their debt level starts to come down. A large percentage of people I talk to are coming to me for help with reducing or eliminating their debt load. In those cases, the first meeting is usually one where they come in looking very tense and full of stress. Being overwhelmed with debt, from my observations, is bad for a person’s posture, mood and stress level. 

After the initial conversation, we put together a personalized plan of attack for their debt and we check in periodically (the time line depends on the person and the severity of the debt load) for what I like to call “brag sessions.” In a brag session, they come in and tell me how much of their debt they’ve been able to pay down since our last meeting. We celebrate the progress and acknowledge that there is still room to go. The important part is that these sessions are enjoyable and we are always looking for ways to make more progress. 

In many cases, after a couple years of check-ins and brag sessions, the debt level is close to zero and you can see their eyes light up when talking about what life will be like when they get to $0 debt. I’ve had a number of people come in to the office and pull up their final credit card balance on their laptop to show me that they just paid their last little bit of debt off. When they show me that or bring in the checkbook and write the last check in the office, their level of excitement about what comes next reminds me of the first days of baseball season when excitement and optimism reign.

Are you’re looking for a way to generate some smiles and some enthusiasm into your days? Check out some spring training baseball or..get one of your debts to $0. Either way, it’s a great idea.

Do You Really Need to Spend That Much on Entertainment?

September 30, 2016

As the baseball season winds down, and my beloved Baltimore Orioles are in a downward spiral and may fall out of playoff contention, the big story on local sports radio is about the lack of attendance at Orioles games in the midst of a playoff race.  When Oriole Park at Camden Yards (the best ballpark in the country in my opinion) opened 20+ years ago, it was sold out every night. 14 years of losing baseball, as well as some questionable business practices, drove attendance down over the years.

Several seasons ago, the O’s made it to the playoffs for the first time since the late 90’s, and the town went nuts. It was tough to get a ticket at the end of the year, and playoff tickets were being sold on the secondary market for outrageous sums of money. This year, I’m almost embarrassed to say that I haven’t made it to a game yet, and tickets are available on the secondary market for next to nothing. My kids haven’t expressed interest this season. Friends that I normally go with haven’t been all that enthusiastic.

It’s weird. If I don’t go in the next week or two, I will go a whole season without going to a game. That may not have happened since I was 2 or 3 years old, and I’m questioning why I haven’t. It hasn’t bugged me until today. That’s an answer that I’ll wrestle with on my own, and as I write this, I’m checking the O’s home schedule and sending a message to friends to make sure we at least get to one game.

While I wrestle with this question, it also raises the larger issue of how I spend my entertainment dollars. Along with the cost of housing, cars and food, entertainment is one of the big line items in most family budgets. Vacations, cable TV, movies, sports tickets, concerts, shopping, going out for dinner – there are a lot of dollars being spent on entertaining ourselves.  When we are having a tough time making ends meet, the entertainment budget is usually the first to go. When it doesn’t, credit card bills can mount.

Most of the people I’ve talked to who are in deep credit card debt will tell me that they spent the money on “stupid stuff” (their words, not mine). A lot of times, it was because times were tough, and they felt that all they did was work, so they wanted to “reward themselves” with a little bit of fun. That fun usually ended up on a credit card, and a $100 expense turned into a $300 payoff amount after many months of minimum payments and high interest rates.

Here’s my challenge to you: Take a look at how much money you’ve spent on entertainment over the last 3-6 months. Are there ways you could have just as much fun while spending less? Hikes, bike rides on local trails, and a kayak rental at a local lake are all very low cost ways I’ve replaced my fairly expensive baseball habit. Rather than eating stadium nachos (now I’m hungry!) and drinking expensive yet lousy beer, I’ve been sweating and spending way less money while drinking water and eating protein bars.

If I can do it, you can too. Find one habit/entertainment source where you think you might spend more than you’d like. Pick a fun and free (or close to free) activity to replace the more expensive one. Spend the next 30, 60 or 90 days re-configuring your entertainment habits. I have a hunch you’ll find the change of pace enjoyable, and you might even be able to REALLY reward yourself in the long run.

 

 

Spring Break Isn’t Just for College Kids

March 25, 2014

These next few weeks make up the peak time for spring break at many colleges so many of the students flock to the beaches of Florida.  But they aren’t the only ones flocking to the warm weather and beautiful beaches. There are also Blue Jays, Orioles, and Cardinals – but not the feathered type.  March brings baseball fans of all ages down to Florida to watch the Grapefruit League during spring training.  Continue reading “Spring Break Isn’t Just for College Kids”

Millennials’ Retirement: Create a Sense of Urgency Today

November 11, 2013

Back in October, I took a fun little road trip with my dad and my son to Atlanta to see some postseason baseball action.  I love baseball and have been a Braves fan since childhood, enduring many peaks and valleys.  Although I try to see at least a couple of games in person each year, this game was special since it was the first playoff game my father and my 4-year old son had ever seen.  (My father had also overcome some serious health issues over the past year so it was a blast doing the tomahawk chop together and trying to catch batting practice home runs.)  Continue reading “Millennials’ Retirement: Create a Sense of Urgency Today”

Not All Sports Are Created Equal

September 26, 2012

From about the time my kids could walk, they have been involved in sports. Sports is a great way to give your kids exercise while teaching them valuable life lessons, but as Susan and I have found out over the years, when it comes to the cost of playing sports, not all sports are created equal. Here is a list of the sports our kids have played, along with the associated costs: Continue reading “Not All Sports Are Created Equal”