How Costco Is Like An R-rated Movie

March 11, 2015

Recently, my teenage daughter wanted to go with some friends to see an R-rated movie but she’s not 17 yet.  I had to inform her that the rules are the rules and that she couldn’t go to that movie without an adult. That’s when my wife chimed in and asked if she could apply that adult supervision rule to me when I go to Costco!

Being a good financial planner, I use Costco to save money on items that my family uses frequently and buys in bulk. I admit, however, that one of my challenges is that the TVs are right by the door. Even though I come in with a list of things to buy, I almost always stop and check out the latest and greatest TVs and start thinking about which ones would be the best for sports, which would work better for movies, etc.

That 3 or 4 minutes of distraction sometimes lowers my vigilance and while I haven’t walked out with a new 70 inch TV, I have made a couple of small impulse purchases. Personal finance is just as much or more about our behavior as it is about math.  So what are some things that I – or you – can do to avoid the need for adult supervision?

  1. Make a shopping list and stick to it. Remember that if a product is as good and useful as it appears to you at that moment, the supplier will continue to make it.  You will be able to calmly and rationally decide at home whether that purchase really would make sense the next time you go or if it was just an impulse buy.
  2. Understand what your triggers are. In my case, I love to watch sports and am always looking for the “perfect TV” to watch a game. Since a large TV is a major purchase, I have avoided the temptation to unnecessarily buy a TV but I have learned that the TV dreaming at Costco triggers my desire to want things that aren’t necessary. Now I make a conscious effort to move past the TVs as fast as possible so that I can avoid my trigger. What is your trigger?
  3. Set a budget for your shopping trip and keep tab of what you’re spending. If you know what you’re shopping for, you should have a good idea of what it will cost. Set a limit – say $200 – and use the calculator app on your phone to keep track of how much you’ve spent so far. That way if you get up to $180 and you still have items on your list, it’s much easier to see that no matter how tasty that free sample was, it isn’t affordable today.

Use these tips to save yourself a substantial amount in impulse purchases, and if you know of any good deals on TVs – let me know.

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Oh No, I Forgot to Check My Line-up!

September 02, 2013

If you are a sportsobsessed, fantasy football player like me, you’ve probably been mortified as you said those dreaded words at some point.  If you are a football widow like my wife, you’ve probably heard that before and wished it happened a lot more often. Why does someone need to check their fantasy team line-up? Didn’t they spend a bunch of time in August putting together the greatest draft strategy in the history of man or at least the history of football? With super star players dominating at every position, why should you bother with something as mundane as checking your line-up before each game?

Well, I guess someone could get hurt. Of course, every team has a bye week so you wouldn’t want to start Tom Brady if the Patriots are off. If you really want to reach the playoffs, then I guess you might not play a lot of Broncos wide receivers if Peyton Manning couldn’t play.

Of course, then there is my team.  If usual form holds true, my quarterback will be crippled by week 3 (Sorry to all Matt Ryan and Julio Jones owners), I will not realize that my back-up quarterback, tight end, kicker and defense have the same bye week and my can’t miss rookie running back will be buried somewhere below whale dung on the depth chart. In short, stuff happens.

The same is true in our financial life.  It always amazes me to see how much time, effort and money people will devote to putting together a financial plan and then rarely if ever re-visit the plan.  In my own life, I’ve seen multiple changes in the last year, let alone the last 5 – 10 years.  Sticking with the old plan would be a quick trip to the losing locker room. While as any of the guys in my fantasy football league will tell you, I’m the last person who should give fantasy line-up advice, here are a few tips for how and when to check your financial line-up:

Set a time each year for an annual review of your plan

  • Have it coincide with the start of something like New Year’s or the start of the school year

Resources:  Financial Planning Checklist    Financial Goals Worksheet     How to Check Your Family’s Finances (9-minute checkup)     E$Planner (Retirement Calculator)

Re-balance your investments

  • If you aren’t in funds that re-balance automatically, this should be done at least once a year
  • When you do your annual review you can choose another memorable day like April 15th

Resources:  Beginner’s Guide to Asset Allocation, Diversification, and Rebalancing     Guide to Rebalancing (WSJ)     Create an Investment Policy Statement

Review your home and auto insurance

  • Having inadequate coverage could leave you in a huge bind, or you could be paying too much
  • Start this process about 60 days before your annual policy renewal so you have time for changes

Resources:  Cars and Auto Insurance    Homeowners Insurance    Homeowner’s Checklist

Update your budget

  • This is really the most basic and most crucial.  Probably good to do with those resolutions, but if you don’t remember when you last updated your budget, do it NOW!

Resources:  Budget and Net Worth Worksheet     Mint    You Need a Budget     How Do I Create a Budget?

Re-evaluate your estate plan

  • This is definitely one that everybody puts off because it just isn’t any fun and can be depressing to think about. Consider doing this on every 5th birthday, for example 40, 45, 50.  A lot can change in 5 years from tax laws, to your income, to kids being in the home or not and even your health situation.  You probably will do something fun anyway for that milestone birthday so that can cheer you up after thinking about this.

Resources:  5 Steps to Estate Planning    A Simple Estate Planning Checklist For a Challenging Topic

Last, obviously if God forbid your star quarterback really does go down with a season-ending injury (please stay healthy Matt Ryan) you need to reassess your fantasy team immediately. If you have a major event in your life, good or bad, it is always a good time to do a top-to-bottom review of your plan to make sure that it is still relevant for you and your family.  Please, pay attention to your financial line-up and if you have any ideas on back-up running backs leave them in the comments section ASAP!

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