Rebooting Your Career After a “Gray Divorce”
November 15, 2016I was recently at a conference talking to a group of women. The conversation was about everything from movies and books to kids and then it turned to marriage. What surprised me about the conversation was not how many women were divorced (we all know that the divorce rate is high in our country) but the age of the women who were recently divorced or facing a divorce. Almost every woman at my table of 20 who was recently divorced or about to be divorced was about 50.
Many were either stay-at-home wives or worked part-time jobs making little money. The reality of being divorced meant they now had to look for work that was not only satisfying but could meet their expenses, and in some cases, help them save for retirement. As these women found themselves job hunting after being out of the job market for decades, I offered the following suggestions on what to look for before accepting an offer:
1) A generous 401(k) match and/or a pension program: Get as much help as your employer can give you to save for retirement, especially if you feel you are behind in savings. Although most pension programs are going the way of the dodo bird, there are still organizations like the federal and state governments that pay a pension. The other is to look for companies with generous 401(k) matching programs. Consider using this article as a starting point to research potentially generous 401(k) plans and verify the information using Glassdoor, Vault or any other website that has employer information and/or employee comments about the company.
2) An extensive benefits package that you can take with you when you retire: Benefits like long term care, life and health insurance while you are working and after you retire (if offered) can be extremely valuable. In most cases (not all), long term care insurance is particularly cheaper when bought through an employer as opposed to an insurance salesperson. In some cases, you can even get it with a less extensive underwriting process.
3) A generous vacation schedule: Most people do not think about it, but you want time to recharge and see the world without having to fight your employer. Look for employers with generous vacation/time off schedules. As they say, time is money.
4) Good opportunities in your career: A company may have the best employment opportunity, but if it is not in the field you are in, you may not experience the full benefits. Consider the potential career opportunities in your field from your potential employer. Explore the job training and tuition reimbursement programs and how committed the company is to helping you develop professionally. Also consider that it may be better to temporarily take a lower paying job if it advances you in the long run.
There are lots of websites to help you on your search. Look at articles such as Forbes‘ “The Best Places to Work in 2016” or similar articles in your local newspaper. Employees are not shy talking about their companies, both good and bad. Go on websites like Glassdoor, Vault and Monster to get insider info about the company. You can even ask questions as many people are happy to reply.
Lastly, do not discount the power of personal connections. Talk to your friends and family about your job search and try to get insight about potential employers. The work you put in at the front end will go a long way to finding a satisfying career.