Are You Taking Good Things Too Far?

July 29, 2016

The latest craze that has swept my family is the Pokémon Go app. My kids run around trying to “catch” Pokémon at different locations. I’m happy they are outside and active, but I have to admit that I don’t have the foggiest idea why they consider this even remotely fun. They walk around and occasionally ask me to take them to a nearby neighborhood so that they can catch these things. (I use “catch” liberally because it’s all virtual, with no one really catching anything.)

They can catch their Pokémon thingies while I sit at an outdoor table at a local coffee shop. I find it a little strange, and in a horrible twist to this silly game, criminals are now setting up shop near Pokémon characters and robbing unsuspecting game players. What started as a fun thing has turned into a fun thing that needs to be used with caution because of some unanticipated consequences. A lot of things that start out as a purely positive have some unintended consequences that create some negativity.

I’ve seen that with a few people recently. I’ve had two meetings with people who are doing a wonderful job of saving for retirement. They ran retirement projections and learned that they needed to pick up the pace as it relates to saving for retirement. They cranked their contribution percentage WAY up so that they could catch up to where they think they should be. That is 100% admirable, and they are operating with the best of intentions.

Their unintended consequences? Both of them are saving so aggressively in their 401(k) that they are struggling with day-to-day cash flow. One is depleting his savings account on a monthly basis just to cover basic living expenses, and the other is using a credit card for groceries in the last few days before her paydays. A noble effort to save for retirement has taken a somewhat sinister turn in these examples, and I’ve had to have a few “I applaud your effort, but maybe it’s one step too far….” conversations.

The good news is that they realized that they may have gone a bit too far, and when we talked about bringing the 401(k) contributions down just a bit in order to make day-to-day cash flow a bit more manageable, they were completely receptive. In each conversation, we had a nice laugh at how some good things can be taken too far. (If you don’t believe that, see how many chocolate chip cookies you can eat before you start to feel like it’s been one too many.)

The lesson here for all of us is that after a few cookies, it makes sense to stop and catch your breath. The other lesson is that some great financial behaviors can be taken to an extreme. Are you saving so much for retirement that you aren’t able to enjoy the here and now? I’ve heard so many stories about people depriving themselves of life experiences in order to save for retirement, only to die just prior to retiring. Are you spending so much in the here and now and enjoying life experiences that you are woefully behind the curve for your retirement goals?

Neither is a good place to be. What’s the old phrase? ”In all things, moderation.”

Even good financial behaviors should be used in moderation! If you’re wondering if you’re taking something just a bit too far, chances are that you are. Whether you ask a financial professional or just hit our Facebook page and ask, get another perspective on your situation to make sure that you have all of the moving parts in your financial life working together.