4 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Graduated From College

May 10, 2016

As I talk to my friends’ graduating children, I am always struck by the hope in their faces. They believe that they control their futures and that their lives will be better. It makes me think about my own graduation and reflect on what I wished someone would have told me about finances:

#1- I will actually have to pay back the money I was taking out in student loans. I do not remember thinking about paying back my student loans. I probably thought that the student loan fairy dropped into my college’s financial aid office after graduation and deleted my debts. If I had known how long and painful it would have been to pay back my student loans, I may have made different choices. I encourage parents to sit down with their kids, calculate repayment costs, estimate their starting salary and give them a cold dose of reality as to what their paycheck may look like after taxes and deductions come out.

#2- The car I stupidly bought after college graduation will become the story I tell people about what not to do when you graduate. I worked so hard to graduate and my car was old so I purchased a car I really did not need. It was cute and in the showroom and the second I saw it, I said “I do.” What I did not realize was that I was also saying “I do” to a 5 year car loan that took almost a 4^th of my income at that time. I wished someone would have told me that the car I get will dictate my ability to save money, take vacations and contribute to my 401(k) plan.

#3- A business wardrobe is not a reason to get into credit card debt. I was lucky enough to land a job with a large corporation but I realized that I needed to get business clothes. I used this as an excuse to run up $3,000 in credit card debt on a new wardrobe. I think this included a Coach bag and wallet that I never used. I wish someone would have told me that credit card debt is not necessary and worked with me on a plan to pay it off

#4 – The earlier you contribute to a 401(k) plan, the less you need to contribute. I wish someone would have told me how important it was to contribute early, the power of compound interest and how starting with even a small amount makes a big difference, especially when your employer is giving you free money in the form of a match to help you save for retirement. Talk to younger people about how your choice to save early has helped you or about your regret in not starting earlier. Run an estimate for them so they can see how a little makes such a big difference .

Looking back, I wished I would have gotten a cold dose of “adult” reality. I wished I would have known that being on my own meant that my financial choices had consequences that can easily be taken care of if I had been willing to buckle down and pay off my debts instead of using credits cards to upgrade my lifestyle. The best gift you can give a college graduate is to help them start off their futures on the right financial footing. Work with them on a budget, encourage them to pay off credit card debt, teach them the importance of contributing to a 401(k) plan and help them come up with a game plan to pay off their student loans before their children are in college.